What to do with your tongue when kissing?

when you make out what do you do with your tongue I've almost made out with a couple peeps but I chickened out because I dont know what to do with my tongue o and dont think im a retard im not realy 18 im 15 ! ! !

when I kiss a girl first off when you just meet some buddy its better to give a simple lips kiss to keep the other person wanting more, occossionally lick the other persons lips, or SOFTLY nible on their lip. and after you feel comftorable with the person yes the tongue is useful but don't abuse it and dont stick it down someones throught.

Here is a little tactic I use if you itchin for a tongue kiss:
-start off with a small kiss
-tilt your head the other way and part your lips slightly to show you want to keep kissing
-dont dart your tongue in but slowly lick their lips and get them to open their mouth, dont pry it open though, some people dont like to use their tongues
-after you got their mouth open tap their teeth with your tongue and or run you tongue across their teeth/gums until their tongue comes out to play
-then you can play around by playing hide and seek with your tongues or licking lips or just have your tongues moving together.

I can't teach you everything you adapt your own style I hope I've been helpfull

(but most important respect yourself and dont let any guy ever push you around)

a kiss comes straight from the heart so if your mate doesn't like it it means she doesn't love you if she does love you no matter what bad kisses you give she will like it it's that simple

just realax... first of alll make sure they want to kiss you, let them start the kiss, and just follow along, untill you are really good, they might have THERE own style, kissing is like dancing, ust follow along to what they do and you will do fine... Have Fun