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Oh my gosh! please help me!

Asked by crazygurl34 5 months ago, 7 answers.

As you may or may have not seen in my recent posts, I am a Christian and believe in abstinence, but I have an amazing boyfriend, Kyle(: I love him with all of my heart and more. We've been going out for a year on Monday. We are really close to eachother,...

and I know he loves me as much as I love him. But, he asked me in a very polite calm way if I would have sex with him on Monday... I'm scared! Of course I'm not going to, but does that make me wrong? Someone, anyone please help me!

Me - Created by maggot4 (Raven) Answered by ichibanarky on Jun 19, 2009, 05:23PM
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It doesn't make you wrong at all - you're not ready, and if he truly loves you, he'll understand.

Yeah do you? Answered by pwincess_irenemarie on Jun 19, 2009, 05:23PM
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Nope its doesnt make you wrong because thats your beliefs.
Explain to him that you rather wait till marriage if he really loves you he will respect your wishes.
Noone should EVER pressure you into anything.
Truelovewaits♄

Answered by crazygurl34 on Jun 19, 2009, 05:34PM
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wowhappy thank ya'll:]

Clearing the Gene Pool Answered by bimjob on Jun 19, 2009, 09:13PM
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You are not wrong. You should never have sex because someone else wants you to.
However, YOU should know what steps you need to take if later on you change your mind and get swept up in passion. It will eventually happen. Maybe after marriage, maybe before, but even if it is after marriage, your future family may be best served by delaying pregnancy until at least mid-twenties, and you both are establish in your education and careers.
Good Luck!!

Answered by christian101 on Jul 16, 2009, 01:30AM

You are right in what you believe. If he wants to have sex and you don't that's his problem not yours.

Royal Coronation 1967 Answered by etyhvh on Jul 22, 2009, 10:31AM
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Let him know that not going all the way is no indicator of how much you love him.

Answered by 5683luv on Jul 30, 2009, 11:10PM

I am also a deep christian and I am 13 your boyfriend should now you want 2 wait 2 make it special he shouldnt make you feel bad about that

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