How can I be easier on myself or get more confidence?

I'm supported by a lot of people. I'm 1st in my class; I'm one of the best soccer goalies; and the leading scorer on the bball team...you would think that I'd have self confidence. I have NONE. WHAT DO I DO? Everytime I dont get a 100, or miss a shot, I get SO MAD. I don't know why. I'm just like that, and I DO BELIEVE in perfection. Don't even say theres no such thing, in my world there is. I need help. What do I do? Why am I so mad? Why !!

Sounds like you are trying to prove something to someone. Is it your family? Yourself?

You're being far too hard on yourself....get over 'YOU'....I believe in perfection too - Jesus Christ....if you're not Him, you can't !!....if it persists, Anger Management.

Good luck !!

I don't know if I'm trying to prove something to someone. Uhm, I going to be 16...I'm living through a teenage hell right now...there's so much going on. I know I'm too hard on myself!! That's what everyone tells me...but uhm thats me. It's personal goals I have. I feel like I just fail all the time. I don't know

I know what you mean I'm the same way well you help all the people and then your the last one to tk care of and you just get frustrated well all I can say you need some alone time go take a jog or go biking or read or write a story something that could help you relive all your strees and anger or try boxing it helps to tk your agression away