Nerves

I am a 16 year old boy. I am a virgin but my girlfriend is not. Both of us are ready to have sex with each other. Usually when im with her I have a good erection. When she gives me hand jobs or blow jobs I am usually fine. sometimes I cant come but that happens. So we were doing our usually thing; foreplay and everything. Im am really hard. I take out the condom and as soon as I put the condom on, my pen*s just goes limp. And then I become too self concious and cant get it back. I know it has to be because during the time it takes me to put on the condom I start getting nervous and then everything goes wrong. But what should I do to fix this problem? I need help...

have her put it on for you. very sensually, also you may be using to small of a condom

Its all in your head, you have put it in your head that you are afraid you are going to go down when it comes to putting the condom on, so if I said to you dont think about the colour red what would you think about? the colour red!!! so becos you have put so much stress on yourself to stay hard, you are stressing so much you are going down, you need to relax and let your girlfriend turn you on and dont stress about what to think while your busy, just go with the flow and enjoy yourself, the biggest sex organ is the brain, let go of yourself and learn to think of nothing but the pleasure.

Its all in your head, you have put it in your head that you are afraid you are going to go down when it comes to putting the condom on, so if I said to you dont think about the colour red what would you think about? the colour red!!! so becos you have put so much stress on yourself to stay hard, you are stressing so much you are going down, you need to relax and let your girlfriend turn you on and dont stress about what to think while your busy, just go with the flow and enjoy yourself, the biggest sex organ is the brain, let go of yourself and learn to think of nothing but the pleasure.

The best is that if you use viagra-like pill at the first few occasions. Later you will not need it. But only doctor can give it to you. Believe me, it is worthy to step forward from this point asap.

u ned to just relax and not think about haveing sex and just do it and if that dont work your just not ready

I know I need to relax but its hard just to relax on cue. Am I the only one this happens too? I never have heard about this happening to anyone else...

Maybe you should have her put the condom on that way your nerves don't start bouncing out of control. If she is putting the condom on then that should turn you on and keep you turned on and hard. Try that and see how that works.

You got to be confident and act like your a natural at sex. If you act confident, your pen*s will also be confident and stand tall