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I am 4 Months Pregent. Still not talkin to my baby father. His Mother have been calllin me with some bull shit. See when I first had find out that I was a month I told my mother and I call Her and told her for she call tell her son. She told me that she will talk to him about it. She told me that to come to her house for she can talk to me and together. HE told his mother that he not doin shit for the baby and that I am lieing on him. Now she is callin my mother tellin her that I am Liein on her son. This hurt a lot But I dO need so advice.

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Answer #1

I dont really think they’re is much to do,But,If she wanted you to talk to him,then Instead of calling or going to his house,see if you can find him sometime when he’s out somewheres,or,(even though he could get mad at his friends for this),get one of his friends to help,by calling the baby’s father and telling him that he needs him to go to his house for something,and you will be there to talk,chances are that that wouldnt work if he really doesnt want to talk to you at all,cause then he would just walk out of the house and ignore you some more…hopefully someone can help you out with this situation though.Good Luck!

Answer #2

Hi! You made the mistake. All this buseniss is just btwn you and baby’s father. You should put the end with hopes on the mothers hands from your side or his. You need to undesstand it’s your life. What do you want and With who do you want to be. If it’s possible to stay with him OK. In worse case to be ready to be a single mother. You must speak face to face with him. Have a very serious talk about your pelationship and future baby. It’s not a toy. Being a mom is a very hard job, around the-clock, 7 days a week, 360 days a year. Ihope you will be fine, I wish that from all my heart. And don’t worry if it’s not him you are going to have another man in your future. I trully believe everything is for better. Good luck.

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