Need a new hair style for thick hair

I have thick, brown, shoulder length hair, frizzy at times and humidity is a problem,
it feels soft but never looks it, the ends are scratchy? and does not look cute in a ponytail because of the texture of the ends.
I cannot find a style I like because most of the styles I see are with perfect textured hair.
I want a style that is wash and go, I do not use products except for Shine every once in a while, I shampoo every other day, I condition most days, I use a dryer every other day, I dye my hair because of some grays every 6 wks or so,
I need a new style something with some wisks of bangs because I like that and soemthing youthful looking and bouncy and sassy looking. I am trying to grow it longer so nothing too short.
Please help...need a haircut yesterday...please help...

I used to have the exact same problem you do my hair was always frizzy looking and id have to straighten it everyday fo rit to look slightly normal.
until ii got this hair cut on http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/gallery/emo/09.html
ever since I got this hair cut I havnt straightened it once b/c I just dont need to since most of the frizzy part of my hair any ways was cut off with all the layers in it.
hope this helps ^_^