Options in my proposed marriage?

Hi
My marriage is proposed with my father's eldest brother's divorced wife
I need opinions

What do you mean, proposed?
You want to marry her?

Yes, I want to marry her. Please provide your opinion.

You're ex aunt?

Yes, She is my ex AUNT.
She is 56 years old. Negotiations are on. In about a week,a decission will be taken by both the parties. She has agreed.And I am interested. She need not consult her ex husband.But I may have to consult him because he is my uncle.Her sons and daughters have no objection.
Will you please give a thought and provide me an advice

How old are you?

I am 23 years old She is 56 years old

I think that you are stepping into a messy situation.
I think you should step back and really think about what you are
doing.
Not only is this bizarre, but you are putting family ties, and relationships at risk.
Don't think that you will not be looked down on or changed in peoples eyes for this.
You're cousins will have to think of you as a step father, etc. Your uncle will most
likely not like the idea, and your mother?

You are young and fresh.
To be honest I think you should take a WHILE and think about this.
It sounds like you are rushing into something without thinking
of all the possibilities.
Think of children.
Think of family and friends.
Think of her true aim.

Are you sure she just doesn't want someone to rely on, to take care of her because she can't and your uncle won't? WHY did they get divorced and are you putting yourself in a messy situation?
She could be your mother!

Think about this.
My suggestion? Stop and don't for now.
You need to do some more thought...
And you need to get out there and meet some people your own age.
You're basically marrying one of your family.
Regardless of if divorce has broken that tie...she's been there long enough it's a fact.

Madam,
Whatever you have adviced me is true.I admit it fully.
But the fact is that I am the reason for her divorce. I had a relationship with her for the past one year. My uncle divorced her bacause of her relationship with me. Please tell me whether I can desert her.
Among Muslims,a muslim boy can marry the widow or divorced wife of his father's brother or of his mother's brother provided she is not a sister to his parents. Hence there is absolutely no problem as for as religious opinion is concerned.
Secondly my uncle has nothing to do since he has no right over her after divorce.
My mother is supporting me
Her sons and daughters have been consented.They are not coming in her way of life and assured me of their support for me.
There is absolutel no objection from any of our relatives
You may now give me your thoughts.
I am really thankful to you for your good gestures.

So you feel obliged to marry her???

Yes

If this isn't what you want, don't do it.
You made some mistakes, but you don't need to tie yourself down for the rest of your life to make up for it.

Sorry for the delayed response.
I was married to my aunt in a religiously arranged marriage on 24 th Feb 2008.
I don't find any problem with her. I am very happy.
A strange happening is that her ex husband (my uncle) too attended the marriage.
If you feel like knowing the details as to how my marriage was celebrated, I can tell you.

No response from you. How are you ? Do you feel bad of me ?