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my mom has an anger problem

me and my mom dont communicate very well she doesnt result in violence ever but verbal abuse is used quite often she puts everything off she never gets me clothes and I only I have three shirtrs I fit in now . she says trashy swear words all the time and I feel like shes almost failed me as a mother (as harsh as that may sound) what do I do?

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Answer #1

Have you tried talking to her. You have to remember that parents are not perfect and they have their own lives, their own problems, and way more things to worry about than you do. I’m not saying that what she is doing is right - I’m just saying that you need to to talk to her about the way you feel - calmy. Try writing her a letter - let it all out - tell her everything that you are feeling - everything. She most likely does not even realize she is having this affect on you and will work harder and being a parent after she reads it.

Answer #2

get a job, earn your own money and buy your own cloths.. my mum doesnt buy me cloths I buy them, I most likely would only wear 40% of what she bus anywayz.. well if you two really cant communicate.. dont communicate

Answer #3

natie… shes 13. mandyloos right… youre going to have to find some way. writing a letter is a really good idea… maybe try to suggest a time you could go shopping together…

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