How can my mom and I get along?

Well,
It still isn't going so well between us two.
Last night, I cleaned up the living room and it was perfect; she was so sweet when she came back and I thought we were going to turn a new leaf. But then WTF! Then next morning she gets on my nerves, she says, " You are going to miss the bus; hurry up! GET OUT OF THE MIRROR!" I mean that isn't so bad if she says it once but she KEEPS ON saying it over and over again!!!
urgh! And then I lose my temper! I tell her when she does that we fight but she like I don't know...she says if I do everything right then she wud leave me alone! I hate it soo much, can't she ever give me a break?!!!

Please give me advice on what t0 do!!!!

love,
naavastar

same thing only with my dad I frecken hate my dad sooo....much and it feels like he dosent even gave a sh*t about me I just larend to stay away frome his smaly fat ass and just dont pay andjen to him at all when his yealling are screming at me just walk out of the rome and go find a place to go were she cant find you thats what I do just stick in there when you get older just get as far away as you fucking can thats what im going to do and never come back the happies day of my live is when I found out my dad almost died in a carcrash I know thats really really mean but if you just knew him you would understsnd if you want to talk some more are what ever my msn is Fun mail me if you have msn anywaz good luck and hang in there you not alone!!!!

ya thanks Rebecca;
but I can't stay away from her, I love her.
I mean wow...its just my mom gets me stressed sometimes

I think the problem is that you just need to learn not to snap sometimes. I sometimes can do that to and so does my sister. dont even put your mom in a position that would make her miserable. think of all the things she has done for you, and then ask youself "does mom deserve all this sh*t from me?" just try to keep your cool sometimes and I know its hard to do that becasue I perfectly know, but atleast try. think about how your life would be without your mom. would you rather keep letting her down and yourself as well? or would you rather reslove this with your mom and have a happy ending? I think the problem is that both of you dont know how to express yourselves to eachother. maybe a little more "daughter-mother" times and days would help you. Good luck sweetie! and if you think my advice helps and you would like more, then just feel free to email me an Fun mail me.

xox-Cutiee

dude, things will be fine when you move out at 18. I'd start researching college NOW if I were you.

Actually you probably aren't going to want to hear this, but just saying you are going to be late and hurry up isn't all that bad. I just think you are at that age where you think you know more than your parents (it's normal don't worry), and everything they say you take it wrong. Learn to smile and say "Okay Mom", and things will work themselves out.

To rebecca2005 I believe you need to speak to someone about your hatred of your dad. Saying you were happy when he almost died in a carcrash, well, that just leaves me speechless.