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What if I don't mean that much to my best friend?

my best friend can get on my nerves really easily. she really likes this boy but sometimes she doesn’t. A week ago she hated him and this girl because were going out. now they broke up and she is in love with this boy and wants to be the girls friend. i am upset because i act more like a friend to her than she does to me. she is a good friend and a lot of fun but i’m afraid if she ever gets with the boy, she will like him better than me. she already talks to him more and she also put him before me on her friends list. i tried sending her messages but i don’t really want to say how i feel because i don’t want to get into a fight with her and not be her best friend anymore. what should i do to fix my problem and keep my friend?

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Do you have other friends that you hang around with? Perhaps in this instance, you may want to change your focus to the direction of your other friends. When your best friend comes to the realization that she does not hear from you or see you so much, perhaps she will come to respect the importance of your friendship. And if she continues to treat you in this same fashion, then you continue to hang out and be with your other friends. Either your best friend will wake up or she won’t. It is up to her..

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