My ex has a girlfriend, how do I get him back?

I broke up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago, but now I want him back. He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend, but I am willing to give up everything that I have to get him back. He was my soulmate and best friend, and I miss the connection that we had. Any suggestions on how to get him back?

Thers no way you can get him back if he feels the same way about this new girl as what you do about him, I would ring him but do it on the sly because if he's not interested any more it will show you right up pet.

You cant just dump someone and then expect to get them back whenever you want! If he was your soulmate and best friend, you wouldnt have dumped him in the first place, and got yourself a new boyfriend!! He has a girlfriend, you need to respect that, and leave him alone!

ANGEL FIRE THAT MESSAGE YOU POSTED WAS BUSURK, BE TRUTHFULL FAIR ENOUGH BUT DONT RIP PEOPLES HEARTS OUT IF YOU'VE NEVER BEEN IN THE POSITION YOURSELF. I DONT AGREE WITH YOU AT ALL, DONT LISTEN TO HER PET, GO FOR IT, IF YOU WANT HIM GO AND GET HIM. XX

kennedy if you have a problem with my ADVICE just keep it to yourself!!
I am being truthful, and I HAVE been there, so dont you dare judge me!!!
If she wants him, go and get him? HE ALREADY HAS A girlfriend!!! You dont go around dumping someone, get yourself a new boyfriend, then when you decide you want your ex back after 6 mos. just go and interfere in his new life?
Did you or her ever stop to think what he might have gone through when she dumped him? Maybe he doesnt want her back for fear she might do it again to him! Sometimes we make mistakes that we sometimes regret, but thats a part of life. Its how we learn!
*If he hasnt given you any signs that he wants you back...leave him alone!

lol anyways .. if your in a relationship and your not happy with your boyfriend and you want someone else or not then thats your right .. break up with your boyfriend tell him you rather break up with him then to stay with him and cheat on him and as for getting your ex back wear something cute show a 'LIL' skin not to much and hang with him alone for a while be happy and laugh a lot remind him why he liked you and if he cares about you and still thinks about you the way you thik and care about him things will work themselves out and if he doesnt get the point call or im or write him a message sayin you still have intrest in him and if hes not willing to give his currrent relationship up then when hes single or lonely to give you a call

I know it's a hard thing to do, when people tell you to just forget about someone you once loved and would have given anything to be with, But trying to forget about someone you once loved is like trying to forget about someone you never knew/ If this guy truly loves you and is willing to put forth the effort in seeing you and still talking to you, then I would go after him. But not so fast that your going to get your heart broken again, I mean after all He does have a new life and who knows, Maybe he is meant to be with this new girl he has.

I am going through the same thing...but I don't have anyone right now. We went on a 'break' from each other.. and in that time he was with someone else and decided to tell me that he has a new girlfriend... and it kind of 'just happened'.. I guess these things happen. I personally believe that you should leave him be for a bit. Being with this other person will give him a new experience and maybe let him sort out his feelings... he very well may be back to you but he may not too. I think you need to protect yourself in this sense and just stay away because if anything that will make him realize even more that he has lost you. If you keep contacting him, he will believe that you are still there. You need to make him think you are GONE. Good luck. I know it hurts... but sometimes it can't get any worse.. only better. You must believe that to be true to move on either way.

I understand what you are going through, I have the same issue right now. I want my ex back after 5-51/2 years later. The problem is he has a girlfriend and they live together. He knows that I still love him, he has even told someone I know that he still loves me, and want to be with me. Its hard when you love someone, and there is something standing between you two. What suggest is that you take your time and play every card you are dealt with the right way.The no matter what happens you know that you did your very best. I now have to deal with the fact that he is willing to dump his girl for me. I love him so much I am willing to just leave it alone, to spare everyones feelings.Sometimes its not just about your feelings.

I agree with kennedy.
some things happen and there's nothing you could do stop them then.
but I'm in the same position and my ex has a new girlfriend.
I want him back but I don't know how to do it.
and I don't want to be a home wr4cker

im going through the same thing. me and my boyfriend really loved each other, but after a myspace issue he didnt trust me. we broke up and after a lot of convincing he took me back. things were going cool but he was still paranoid and couldnt get the myspace situation out of his head. turns out today that we broke up and decided to stay friends. try to be friends with your ex. after all, isnt that how everything started out? you guys being friends? after that he might fall in love with you again. good luck!