My boyfriend wants to take things slow

I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a week. We've spent everyday together and when we're not together, he calls me and wants to be in contact. I love it. I've never had a guy so crazy to be with me. Hes so cool too, hes just a bad a*s guy to...

be with. He also said he wants to take things slow, I don't understand it. I absolutly love it, but its just weird for a 17 year old guy to want to wait. I don't know what it means, hes not a virgin and does smoke weed and all that teenage stuff. Why do you think he wants to take it slow? Again, I think its amazing, its just way different from any other guy I've been with.

When a guy tells you that he just wants to take it slow, he doesn't mean that he wants to break up with you. There is something he is trying to get through your head. You are probably carrying on too far with him he doesn't want to jump right into the intimate things if you know what I mean. There's got to be something that he believes should happen first. If I were you, just wait patiently You don't want to push the guy away. You have something good coming for you. At least he really does care by him saying that, you should know by now that he is not fooling around with you or any sort of thing. A guy does not like it when you talk about your past relationship. Anything to do with the past will push him away. It will either make him jealous or ashamed. It will make him think that he's not good enough for you. Just because he's a virgin.. so what? He wants to give it some time. You don't just date a guy for a week than have intercourse with him just like that. He wants to get to know you better. He wants to spend more time with you. He's obviously showing you he cares doesn't want to tell you he loves you too much cause that will just give you the weapon to hurt him. He doesn't want to lose the good things that has happened to him. Don't try rushing the relationship. He will tell you if he is ready to do things with you. Sit back, enjoy the relationship have fun You don't have to have intercourse to show that you love eachother. Even giving eachother a massage, going out to the movies, enjoying a romantic dinner together, going for a walk, going to the workout gym together, going shopping together, going snowboarding together, going swimming together.. all the stuff you basically would do with your friends. That should show him that you love him It will give him the chance to know you as a better person, be assure that he has found what he is looking for so on. If you don't want him to loose interest in you, start talking to him in general (but remember not to talk about how much you wanna be with him, how you want to be married, how you want to have intercourse, how your ex boyfriends treated you, how you give head what not.. you want this to be a surprise! Don't get too personal. Guys don't really like that. If a guy gets too personally, you obviously know he is after only one thing.) Hope this has helped a lot.

Why are you complaining. If I was you - I would be happy that you have a guy that doesn't want to rush into sex. Atleast you know he is there for you and not just what is in between your legs. Enjoy the relationship and don't rush him into anything.

Most likely - it's a good thing. Don't worry. He respects you and you should be happy.

No just take thing slow whats wrong with that just Enjoy the relationship atleast he's not rushing to gett in between your legs like Mandyloo said

my boyfriend said that to, 4 months, and we were planing on getting married in 2 or 3 years, he wants to stop talking about it. is he having second thoughts?