My baby and his cousin!!

Im 16 and have a 2 month old baby and her father dose not want 2 help me with her and his cousin is really feeling me and he wants 2 be my new man and help me take care of my child and me what should I do go with him or not???

your 16, with a baby.
that makes life hard enough.
I dont think you should make it any more complicated with a guy-
much less your babies father's cousin.
focus on your child right now, and dont worry about anything else.

Do you want to go with him? If you don't want to then don't let him pressure you into it.

You know, there are laws out there to protect you. Her father really does not have much of a choice when it comes to helping out with his daughter. Even if you would go out with his cousin he still needs to support his daughter. Even if you marry someone else, he still needs to support his daughter.

Go to you counties Domestic Relations, they will help you to get the support you need with out having to go out with someone to get it.

I would
but hey thats just me

what amata wi all youss
!! your 16 4got sake get your bootie
out there an have fun
get someone to watch d baby 4 the night!!
you no what ya gotte do xxx :P

if you like him and think that he would make you happier and help you with your baby then by all means do it ...obviously the babys dad doesnt take enough interest to be able to put any input about you to being together...best of luck

personally I dont think its a good idea but I dont know your situation so I really cant say. Just make sure whatever you do from this point on in your life is in your childs best interest. because its no longer about you or what would be best for you its about your child.

I am in pretty much the same situation as you, I have a 2month old son and my baby father does not want anything to do with my son, except he wants full custody =S Pathetic really but anyway.. Personally I wouldnt go with your baby fathers cousin I know how hard it is being a single mum at 16 and it is very stressing and all you want is someone to help you deal with you and the baby, your answer is not his cousin though honey. Think about it in the long run, your baby father is only going to throw accusations at you and get the authorities on to you! believe me its happened to me because he thought I was with my childs Godfather,, let alone your baby fathers cousin!!! which I wasnt even though it had nothing to do with him they will do anything to make life hard for you. funmail me if you need to chat

dating his cousin is not something that you want to do period. Think about what he may have told his cousin about you!, maybe stuff about ya'lls sex life, guys do that kind of stuff! Now he may really like you, but there is a reason why he wants to be with you and it's probably not because he wants to take care of you and his cousins baby. He can take care of the baby by being just a cousin. Tell him that you don't want a relationship with him and see if he'll continue to want to take care of you guys. Don't fall into the mess that he's throwing you. Sweetie you will find out later in life how many men "say" they want to help you but really they want to help themselves. Im not saying that there's no one out there, I'm saying look out for you, don't get played because you really dont have time for it.

I'd say go for it, if you like him and you 2 have a connection and you believe he will actually be a good sopporter then sure why not?...just make sure your child always comes first, and that she has all the safety, supplies and love that is needed to help her grow into a mature young lady

oh my god, this is going to sound really crazy but im going through the exact same thing. im 17 with a 9 month old. the baby dad is in jail, and the cousin I met over myspace. I went with the cousin. and its working out and im happeier than ever fine. so if you think that you would be happier with the cousin and its better for the baby, then go for it.

I know you put this up a month ago, but I still want to throw in my 2 cents worth.

I have a friend in Maine and she got pregnant really young and married the father of the baby. They got divorced and he started dating her cousin. Now, he is the father of two babies who are cousins AND half-sisters.
I would say... dont. Things could get really messy.