Should I talk to her gram about us?

ok I know I asked a lot of questions and stuff, but I need to ask for more help

ok my girlfriend said she wanted to take a break until tuesday. now today right now she is at the mall with another guy and I cant stop thinking about it, she told me she wanted to take the break and she dont know where she stands with us and where those 2 stand thats why she wants to spend some time with him to see whats sparks, then tuesday she will make her decision. now when I ask her questions so I can know whats going on she gets mad and either hangs up or dont talk she told me to stop worrying because nothing is going to happen but if it does happen (s*x that is) then thats the reason that she took a break so she wont hurt me as bad but she promised that it wont happen and also its just to the mall and she got her best friend with her so I dont think anything will happen. but she talks to her gram about the whole situation and since her gram said I am the only boyfriend she ever had that her gram likes then I was wondering since my girlfriend wont tell me whats going on and her gram does know should I call her gam while shes at the mall and see what her gram says and get any advice off her gram or would that be a bad thing asking her gram for info ad advice... like her gram told her she was stupid for wanting to break it off with me and her gram wants her to stay with me so should I ask the gram for help???

ummm... maybe ... I think that would be an okay thing to do... but I dont know if her gram would actually tell you cause then her granddaughter your girlfriend wont tell her anything ever again since she did tell you.. I think you should find a better girlfriend someone that is going to be with you and not just need a break and is already with a new guy... sounds kinda sl*tty... sounds like she is not ready to be in a relationship and just stick with one person sounds like she wants to have fun and be with a lot of guys. find someone who is going to treat you better.

Dear wil465ner,

I can see where you're coming from. You have a girlfriend, who decides to take a break from you for a while, and take it from there. However, she is hanging out with some other guy, and your girlfriend's close friend. I think your girlfriend doesn't know what she wants right now. There are probaly so many things going on in her life that you may not know about, or maybe she is not comfortable in the situation that she's in with you.

For now, relax and not worry about it. I can see that you're a bit jealous about her going to the mall with another guy, but like she said, she wants to see what happens, and see if she falls for him. You just have to accept that your girlfriend is mingling with different kinds of guys, and if she falls for him, then oh well! She is most likely going to miss out on a great guy. You guys were probaly not meant to be, and you have to accept that.

However, if she does come back to you, then she may have realized that she still cares for you, and she can't resist. No, I wouldn't go out of my way to talk to her gram. It's not like you can never talk to her gram again, because she seems to like you, but your gram can't 100% convince your girlfriend to take you back. That's your girlfriend's decision.

But for now, let your girlfriend be, and hopefully, she'll make the right decision by staying with you. Hope I helped.

Sincerely, Danielle

Its really not her Grams decision who she should be with, and she is really considered an ex, even though you are just 'taking a break'. Anytime a partner wants/needs a break from the relationship it means they dont want to be with that person right now. Why would you want to sit and wait to see who she wants to be with, and when? She is just stringing you along, so that if things dont work out with this other boy, she will have you to fall back on, until another boy comes into the picture again. She doesnt care about you, because if she did, she wouldnt be playing you for a fool. There are tons of girls out there. Find one who will be worthy of you, because your ex is not.