Mom reunion wedding

my mom wont let me have my wedding the way I want it and thank god she dont live with me. My wedding is on the 27th of Sept and she wants me to have a flower girl, ring barrer, and singers but I dont. she has always ruined my life. what am I suppose to do?

tell her it's your day, not her's.
explain to her you want her input, but it's about you, not her.

Compromise - 'I'll go with the ring bearer and flower girl' - Congratulations, I wish you every happiness !!

if it s your wedding tell her that its your wedding and she cant do nothing about it, so have it the way you want it not your moms

It's your wedding so ultimately the decision is up to you but, if she's paying for any or all of it then she should have some kind of say where her money is going. Not that you need to do what she wants. Compromise, that's the best way to keep everybody happy. I know, it's your day and the only person you need to keep happy is yourself (true). But how happy are you going to be if your mom is walking around telling everybody who will listen how she wanted your wedding to be?

Good luck and congratulations