Missing my ex way too much, don*t know what to do?

me & my ex broke up about 3 months now, we were together for close to 4 months, we had our problems(he lived an hour away) but we were very serious about each other, I really though I was going to marry him, we were so in love, then out of nowhere he tells me he can*t handle having a girlfriend right now(oh yea he cheated on me with his ex), but that he still loved me more then anything and wanted us to still be close,& PROMISED me that he would always be part of my life, go to prom & my graduation with me & also that we were*nt done forever, I believed him & want that soo bad. we stayed close for about a month, then he started not bothering to call or come see me like he said he would. so about a month ago I call him & his cuzin tells me hes not home, so im like ok & hung up. 10 mins later he calls me back & hes like Kyle(his cuzin) said you called & that it was important, im like yea I called but I never said it was important, im like I just wanted to see how you were, I havent heard from you in a while hes like umm yea, hes like im not trying to be a di*k, but I have nothing to say to u, hes like I dont have time to talk to you all the time (meanwhile we havent talked in like a month) and im like I dont want to talk to you all the time, im like I just want a call once in a while, hes like yea, im like anyway I though we were going to be friends, hes like well sh*t happens, im like well what sh*t? hes like nuthing, I just dont have time 4 u, im like why cant we be the way we were before we were going out(we were best friends) hes like because its not like that anymore. then im like what happened that made us this way, im like did I say anything or do anything to make us like this, hes like no. im like w.e, im like just so you know there is NOONE else, hes like what are you talking about im like you know, hes like yea, im like well I miss you n I want you to be part of my life again,n you obvesly still care about me because when kyle told you it was important you called back right away, hes like ill always care about u, so then hes like I g2g I have practice 2maro, hes like I promise ill call you in a few days (he still hasnt called, I knew he wouldnt) I have a new man but hes not the same, I want me ex back soo bad hes all I think about 24/7, he still is the love of my life, im so in love with him, im trying to move on but I cant, I love him soo much, what should I do, do I call him (footballs over so he should have time now 4 me I guess) PLEASE help I don*t know what to do anymore, were perfect 4 each other, all I want is my baby back. PLEASE SOMEBODY HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!

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jk

I don't know know what to say lol

Give yourself some time to get over this guy and find someone new.
Works every time

I miss my ex we went out for over a year and I was madly in love. one day he decides that hes just not happy anymore and there was nothing I could do. I have had my ups and downs in the past four months since we broke up. reading and hearing about others break up stories tends to give me some relief in knowing im not the only one going thru this. I still dont know how I have lived the past few months and dont know what to expect from the future. I hadnt seen him since we broke up then I saw him 2 days ago and we had sex. but does that mean I fell victim to being used or does it mean he still likes me and wants me back? im confused. although I HAVE to get over him one day . I just dont know how im going to do it. Mel

I miss my ex we went out for over a year and I was madly in love. one day he decides that hes just not happy anymore and there was nothing I could do. I have had my ups and downs in the past four months since we broke up. reading and hearing about others break up stories tends to give me some relief in knowing im not the only one going thru this. I still dont know how I have lived the past few months and dont know what to expect from the future. I hadnt seen him since we broke up then I saw him 2 days ago and we had sex. but does that mean I fell victim to being used or does it mean he still likes me and wants me back? im confused. although I HAVE to get over him one day . I just dont know how im going to do it. Mel

This is really heart breaking but try 35yrs of marriage where he picks up & goes off to another state, files for divorce and yet call 3x a day everyday. There you have it. Take a deep breath, give him space, allow to happen what God has in store. Yes, I cry, I'm lonely but honey if he left you,you should not allow him the power to have you thinking something was wrong with you, he does not deserve that power. I ONCE READ THAT AND IT STICKS IN MY HEAD..I also scream in my car when Im alone & scream how much I hate him for what he is doing and did to me....the night will get easier....

Dump him. I noe its hard but ya noe... Or you could test him, let him noe that you're going out with 'nother guy and act all flirty like and see if he cares. If he doesnt care, dump him. He's just one of the fishes in the sea, there's plenty more that you can fish!