How can I get out of living with my girlfriend?

I'm still living with my girlfriend in this very moment, the problem is that she goes out a lot and recently, she doesn't even get home until the next day. two days ago I went to this place that she says she go. when I got there she wasn't there. when she came home the next day I asked her, " did you have fun in the place you went" she said, oh yea. then I told her you fkin liar I was there. she was always telling me, that she was going out with a female friend, but this guy who was her "friend" was always calling home now I know she is going out with him and I am 100% secure , she was staying with him.u always know when people change. my problem is that I got 2 kids with her and she seems like she doesn't care. I need 2 get out of this house but I don't know how. the reason is that apartments are espensive and my job sux. we have been together for 11 years and I don't know wt to do. can somebody find me an answer?

Well it seems to me like she is tired of waiting for you to settle down with her... 11 years seems like a long time to be girlfriend/boyfriend... I could be wrong but don't you think if you waited 11 years with a girl you really wanted to marry that you would start seeking different avenues in life? I wish the best of luck to you on this... but you seriously need to communicate... and put it out all on the table... and make your life better..

you only live life once. so make everyday a good day... not to mention you are the provider so you have to be the one to put your foot down and figure this out... but I think its cause you haven't married her... I am curious to know more after you read what I have said... so please Fun mail me or reply to this...

jason

As I understand your situation you do the best if you do not care about the behaviour of your g/f. Let her to go if she wants.