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Make up a great relationship ?

Asked by s0ul 6 months ago, 3 answers.

2, there's a girl in my school who I want to be my girl friend, but I don't know how to make the first conversation with her ? some ideas . thanks!

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Mar 30, 2008, 04:00AM
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Hey whats up,
Here's what I used to do:

1.)Find out her interests(ask mutual friends or her friends)

2.)learn about her interests if you don't already know about them

3.)If you have a class with her, then either ask for help from her or help her if she needs help . This will make it easier to start talking to her.

4.)After you help her or (vice versa)start a dialogue.
-Ask her questions about her(trust me girls LOVE to talk)
Example:So What middle school did you go to?
How many brothers/sisters do you have?
etc.

*Listen to everything she says and try to think of how your similar, how your different, or a story related to the topic. Use these tools to keep conversation going.

5.)After 3-4 days of talking to her you must go for it! Don't be afraid to be turned down it happens to everybody.
(Exampleut of every 10 girls I ask out about 8 will turn me down.The key is to have confidence and if you get rejected-OH WELL!-the next girl might say yes)
-If you have a common class then invite her to your house for a study session.
-If you don't have a class in common then ask her out to the movies to "hang out", don't say date yet.

*If your shy then invite a couple of your friends and tell her to bring some of her friends.(this will lighten the mood and remove pressure from you)

6.)Be yourself, but don't be shy, be funny and outgoing.

7.)If it goes well ask her out again but just you two, say this:
" I liked hanging out with you and I was thinking this Friday I could take you miniature golfing(or something fun), but this time just us so I can get to know you more"

*If she likes you she will say yes. If you have fun again and you both like eachother keep hanging out and your relationship will develop.
*Otherwise just move on.
*Don't waste any more time/money on her.

-There have been many girls I've liked that didn't like me
-There are also many girls that have liked me that I didnt like them.

If it works-Congratulations
otherwise find another girl and try again.

Try it out and keep me posted.

-Tony

P.S.- If your not shy then just go up to her, introduce yourself, tell her your interested in her, offer to take her out.(I usually stick to this because it is easier)

superfresh. Answered by superfresh on Mar 30, 2008, 09:58AM
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Ok, well talk to her and see if you can maybe get her number or her I.m adress and see if you guys can talk, for a while see how she likes you in a couple of weeks, and if things are going well... than maybe you guys can take it to the next level.. good luck. :]

blink 182 just for now Answered by justjordan13 on Apr 02, 2008, 02:47PM
| 4 answers.

just be like your... so whats up...(she will anwer) and you will say so do you want to go out some time trust me the little things mean a lot to a girl (if shes not a stuck up)

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