Is it safe to not use protection during sex?

hey people...now I may sound a bit weird but I have this thing bugging from quite a long now...I used to be in a relationship for 3 years and I lost my virginity with this guy at the age of 18...he was also a virgin...anyways no matter how much I insist...

him he never used protection which got me into a bit trouble...gradually we broke but not for this reason alone...there were many...
now again m into a very serious and honest relationship with this guy and we enjoy sex so much ..we are so much into each other..v are in monogamous relationship and we dont use any kind of protection..I get my period on tym and don't have any problem wth that but it itches sometyms and is purely safe to not to use any protection and have sex and get my date on time...?? m I suffering from some kind of infection that it itches most of the times...please help...

Dear mizunderstood87,
Of course you know you'll get told about not using protection. You stated that prior you had trouble because of this...well you may have trouble again. You need to see your doctor ASAP and be tested for an STD or a yeast infection that the two of you are spreading to each other regularly. It is never safe not to use protection unless you are planning a family.
Sue...good luck

I would think that the word protection means something.

hey thanks a lot people for ur advice...i really appreciate ur advice...

but i still have this thing inside my mind...wat if i started taking pills...??? is there any side effects or long term effects of pills??? how do people in america or may be in any other country survive as i have heard most of them has never used protection ever ...??? and well obviously u r ryt sue that its never safe not to use protection but we kind of dont enjoy sex with it on...help...i think m in deep trouble...ive been through a blood test couple of months back and again m planning to go to the doctor..but here in india they sucks...they would see an unmarried girl asking these kind of questions as a slut...n i think m going crazy ...

Personally I thinks it stoopid to have sex and not be on BC. Lets face it everybody drops the condom after a few goes in a commited relationship- and that's not smart- but everyone is guilty of it. However, if you are having sex with NO BC I'd say that's way stoopid.

so are BC safe enuf to use?? i ve never tried it and have heard that they cause lots of dizziness ..nauseau n stuff ...i have tis fear ...thats it...i really wont mind going on pills or protection ..he is very supportive ...
thanks for the help buddy

there are 100's of different kinds of BC. one will work for you- just got to find the right one.

ok this is simple and you have been told all this already but here it goes again.

Use Condoms!! No one actually enjoys them but it is safer and that is a big deal.
Get on some BC. It is 99% that you wont get pregnant on them but you still need the condoms for the STD chance.

DONT RISK IT AGAIN. You say you alreayd had stuff go bad because of not protecting yourself why do it again? Who cares what a doctor think of you. Trust me they have dealt with people way worse then you will ever be so even in India they probably wont see you as a slut.

American use protection a lot now. True we dont like condoms and trust on BC probably more then we should but if there is no BC then we use condoms. The only girls I know not on some sort of BC cant be on it because there bodies react to it and get sick.

Anyways hope you get into the doctor and get all cleared out and get on the BC. you can do it all at one time too.

I've your on another form of contraception and you and your partner are 100% clear of any STI/STD and theres little or no chance of either of you playing away then I say do it only if your 100% ith each of what I said hope this helped

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