Why is love so hard to find?

Okay if you a girl and your just like me when it comes to finding a guy, you go for the bad guys, the players and the ones that you know will cheat but hope you can change them then yay im not on my own.
but how to do find real love? and get a nice guy when you have lost trust to any guy due to the amount of times you have been hurt?

I think you need to keep looking for the right guy. your not going to find him by just waiting around. date other guys until you find the right one. love hurts but in the end all the pain is worth it when you find a guy that will love and care about u.
hope I helped :] funmail me if you need more advice!

I have the same problem, but its my own fault, I go for guys because of looks rather than whats on the inside, I pick, players, cheaters, and pot heads I just wish I could find a hot guy that also looks good on the inside, I suggest to keep looking because thats my plan,,, well good luck! and funmail me maybe we can work together on this thing : )

Haha I know im the same I go for looks instead of personility, really doesnt get me anywhere, they last about a month or so and then goes downhill..
yip I will do:D
thanks for thee advice

okay I have the same problem and I learned that we are looking in the wrong places.. we like a challenge.. we like people we cant have *& who treat us like sh*t b/c we dont like boys who get whiped bc they do what ever we say.. and once again we like a challenge!

I have the same problem

u and me are in the same boat..
I love a challenge, having that bad guy on my arm to show of and secretly thinking he will change to what I want him to be like.
they never do change thou

All my friends have lovely boyfriend, who take them out and everything cept wee me lol

lol, sorry but dam. Your all looking for a good guy and you don't know how to find one. Ya, they usually arn't the most popular guys in school but you guys make it sound like every good guy is ugly. They are out there, im one of em, or at least thats what people tell me. Its real easy to tell a good guy from bad. Rule 1, at no time will a good guy pressure you for anything sexual. seriously, the slightest pressure at all and you got yourself a scumbag. Stick to that rule and your half way there. but its real easy to see through a guys bullsh*t. I've just never got why women have a hard time doing it. You just have to pay attention. Anyway , good luck ladies. And like I said, just pay attention to their actions and you can tell

Basicly the guy that is going treat you right is nice, sweet not the most popular guy and maybe not the most outwardly attractive guy (e.g. me) but to be honest you probably have a good idea of who these nice guys are.

They might not show an intrest in you but thats because they are nervous and might need a bit of help for them to realise that your into them.

But basicly go out there and find your good guy (and youll be very happy together!)