Is it normal to want to be raped?

I like the idea of guys raping me and pushing me around. I've told a couple friends and they say I need to get help. opinions? please

okay come on guys, all you idiots telling this girl you need help and you're not right are just SO ignorant it's not even funny.

nagiya... trust me... don't listen to any of these morons. you do not need help, you are not crazy or wrong or weird. you are completely normal, because what you have described is a FANTASY.

most of these idiots here judged you and told you you're crazy without even asking if you've ever had sex before. have you ever had sex? because that would make a huge difference here.

believe it or not, rape fantasies are pretty common. normal people have all sorts of crazy fantasies! it has also been suggested by psychiatrists and sex therapists that intelligence plays a factor (I.e. the smarter and more open-minded you are, the more complicated and intricate your sexual fantasies may be). so maybe you're just smart! lol

underwaterophelia's mock rape thing she does with her boyfriend, well me and my ex-girlfriend used to do that too. it's not weird or wrong, it's just something people do to add excitement to their sex lives.

my guess is that you really don't want to be raped. you want to be fake raped like ophelia suggested. maybe you think you really want to be raped, but if it really happened I am sure you would change your mind.

what do you think? are we right? or no?

No, it's not normal. You must have had a terribly sad childhood. Your friends are right: get some professional help.

I think its because you want to have sex so bad that you or you like mean sex

i think its because u wanna have sex so bad that u or u like mean sex

I know this girl who said she was raped when she was fourteen. The rape made her realize that she liked sex, but she didn't want to come across as a w*ore. So two weeks later she was raped again by the same person.

She used to be such a smart girl, but today she has some of the most disturbing beliefs ever. Not sure why she's out of the loony bin.

i actually like the idea of bein raped but then about a year later a thought no i wouldnt because id be stook with somone elses child... i didnt get help it just took me a while too realise it

It's a fanisey.. meant to stay one .. Do you know what rape victions GO THOUGH? Think about it there emotional scared for LIFE.. lots are afraid of sex. Refering to a show called Dexter. Dexters sister Debbie had sex with a cerical killer and then later a guy touched her shoulder and she punch him and gave him a broken nose. Ouch.

It's one thing to enjoy sex where your partner is the dominant one, or bondage, that sort of thing.. but no one WANTS to go through the emotional and physical pains of being raped. RAPE is non-consensual sex. If you don't know what that means... it means that you're being forced to have sex when you don't want it. Therefore, it is not something that you WANT.

i know what it means..jeez. ive had the idea since i was 6 years old. i dont like thinking the way i do. it just sounds appealing.

Yeah but you're missing the point... rape is defined as UNWANTED, forced, sex. You don't want to be raped, you simply just want it rough. lol. BIIIGGG big difference.

noo. i want to be raped. i want someone to kidnap me and rape me.

Um. Wow. D oyu just like the idea of Sex or are you mentaly insane? OK is som1 kidnapped you and raped you theres a good chance that the'll keepyou as a sex slave or KILL you. You NEED TO GET HELP.

what the helll is wrong with you child?

i think you need help y would you want to be forced to do something and beatin up and pushed around i dnt noe talk to some1 u trust and ask 4 help

If you like the idea of getting raped, like getting punched and cut up, and sick things liie that, then you need help, but if you like the idea of dominant sex then thats fine. BUT not the idea of rape itself...thats messed up

dominant sex is fine , but to want to be raped is not the norm... rape is not just being forced into having sex, its the violence and degregration that comes with it...that is definatley not nice... are you sure you're just not fantasising about being dominated during sex???

ya im sure. i like the idea of being beat up by a guy too. its so dumb, but idk

Rape isn't just about being beat up during sex. If you want sex that is really aggressive, dominant, pain for pleasure type thing... then call it that, not rape. If it was rape, you'd be filing a report against the person. Rape is not desirable. It is called rape for a reason. I don't know how else to explain it again to get it through your head.

A rape fantasy is extremely common, and I have one myself. The important thing to remember is that it's a fantasy. I have 100% confidence that you do not actually want to be raped, you just want to be put in a mock situation.

For instance...my boyfriend and I will sometimes pretend we don't know each other at a club, and we'll meet and I'll get in his car, he takes me how, etc etc. That is tons of fun, and very appealing because it's a mock rape situation.

However, I would never, ever want someone to actually pounce on me and rape me.

well go watch some rape videos...I've seen some...guys stick objects in girls vaginas...its not appealing...I think you just want sex

Dear God, you need HELPPP, I could understand if you wanted to have really rough sex but to be raped, DAMN!!! Hey I want to be raped too, but only by boyfriend and he wouldn't be raping then now wud he??? I enjoy rough sex a lot but I wouldn't want to be raped. SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP