Is it normal to argue and fight everyday?

My boyfriend and I literally argue everyday. Is this normal? And it's about little petty stuff. We have however overcome many of our arguments and thats why we are still together after a year. I think maybe we are just too much alike. Anyway today was...

the ultimate, where he actually swore at me. He shouted F you and something even worse that I would not like to repeat... IS THIS NORMAL? can someone please help me understand.

Me and my ex-boyfriends used to fight every single day just like that. But I stayed with him because I loved him... Eventually it got so bad that he broke up with me, and now we are just best friends (yes it was really hard to get over him). We never fight anymore because we would always be arguing about our relationship and such. Sometimes taking a break is what you need to do to get those new love feelings back that you had at the beginning of the relationship
I wish I had the chance to go back and do it all over again though. If I would have known that our silly arguments meant not being together anymore, I would have listened to him more and I would have tried to stay calm when something he did bugged me. You just have to look at the big picture. Is fighting about how much time he spends with his friends or what restaurant you want to eat at or even about what happens in a movie or something REALLY worth loosing the relationship forever?! Just remember that next time you guys start to fight, and try to come to an agreement. I wish you the best of luck, and I really hope you two are able to work things out easier. 3

it was normal for me and my girl then we realized that it was stupid. u have to ask urself and ur bf if yall should be together. ask urselves if ur arguments can be avoided and if u two just argue to communicate. look every couple argues but if its an everyday thing over BS then u have a problem

I dont think its normal to argue everyday. Can you really say that you have a happy healthy relationship if you are always arguing over something of little value? Does it bring positive things to your relationship...? I think the answer would be no. In a relationship you need to be constantly doing things to strenghthen the relationship.. rather then slowly breaking it down.. Sure your arguments are over stuipid things.. but it will slowly eat at each of you.

If your boyfriend is calling you names and cursing at you.. is he really respecting you? A guy should respect a woman and her worth. If he can not talk to you in the right way and treat you the way you deserve to be treated then maybe you should take a look at the relationship and re-evaluate it.

Dear anjol,
You stated you have overcome many of your arguments but are still fighting...so you still haven't overcome what is really wrong. Arguing is the symptom of something bigger than who forgot to put the lid on the toothpaste or who didn't take out the garbage. There is a big problem and until you discover what it is you will continue on this path. He has started to be verbally abusive...you or anyone else shall not put up with this. No matter the problems this is not something forgivable and will turn to physical violence shortly. You need to get to a counsellor ASAP. Find another place to stay or he need to leave. NO ONE and I mean NO ONE is to take verbal abuse from anyone.
Sue...good luck

me and my boyfriend fight everyday we'v done it 4 10 months and he started bein verbaly abusive 2 me until 2 months ago we was arguing in the street an he gave me a good shove an bruised my arms an my back.. no one should take any of tht from any man or women. but if u love each other u stay 2gether. its gona b hard but this is what me a my bf r doin, iv only jus gone out an done my own thing, im not gonna see him for about week, we txt now an again but its best 2 b on ur own 4 a wile an relax an wen u c each otha afta ull realize whats wrong an ul discuss ya problems an hopefully work it out, hope u wrk it out