Is he using me?

ok, I had this boyfriend for like 3 weeks, he pissed me off and I broke up w him just to try and get back the next day. After this we were still apart and having sex. The sex got better. I go down on him a lot and have blonde hair. I heard a quote...

today that said your such a cum guzzeling blonde and demand as much respect as a child porn molester. So thats what I feel like. When we are together its nice and I think he likes me but sometimes he doesn't anwser my phone calls and we always get drunk and have sex. In writing this I think I know the anwser but is there anyway I can be wrong? How if I can is it possible to mend this broken relationship?

Sounds like other than sex you don't have much of a relationship and if you are not togeather then why are you having sex? Why not get back togeather if you are really into each other? If he is not willing to get back togeather then maybe he doesn't want a relationship anymore in which case should dump him again and this time stay away.

Sounds like the sex is what keeps his attention drawn to you. Doesnt sound like a legitimate reason for dumping some1. No relationship is perfect. Alot of people seem to think if they continue having sex with their ex, it'll bring them back together!

Test him Whenever you and him are together, keep sex out of it! (anything sexual) If he asks, tell him no, that you just wanna talk, and if you dont hear from him after, then you know the answer to your question! That means NO calling him!