How can i fix my ugliness?

I'm fat and ugly... but my friends say I'm not but my family do. I told my friend 1 day that I am ugly and she said you're not. she got my other friend beside her and asked her if I was she said no your not ugly at all! But a moment after a boy called my...

name I looked over and he said you're fat! and ugly!

It really hurt me. I want to lose a lot of weight I asked my mum one day but she didn't take it seriously. She's not a mum that you can talk to easily.All my friends are wayyy skinner than me and prettier than me all the boys fancie them. They never get picked on. same old story how can I lose weight without my mum knowing and how can I make myself feel pretty?

u are pretty you just dont have enough confidence

Hey Rebecca don't let anyone make you feel you are ugly. You are not ugly but, you are beautiful. If you want to lose weigt lose it because you want to not for someone else to make you feel better. If you are always trying to please people you are going to keep yourself miserable. Say to yourself ,I AM PRETTY. Tell yourself everytime you look inthe mirror. This will help you build up you self esteem. God bless

diet and exercise are the best way to loose weight
dieting pills are dangerous to your body
just eat right and exercise a lot

God, I'm so glad I'm out of school.

Do whatever you can to just be comfortable in your own skin, honey. I can tell you a million times over every single day that you are beautiful all over, but one little wanker can tell you that you're ugly and fat and THAT'S the gospel truth? Listen to what you're choosing to believe about yourself.

Kids are cruel. I was called ugly and fat 100 times over. DO NOT EVER again say, I'm ugly and fat. Because what you focus on, what you believe, it becomes reality. Focus on doing things that make you feel beautiful. Singing, drawing, working out, whatever.

Don't rely on your friends, family, or enemies to tell you whether or not you are pretty or ugly or fat or skinny. You are what you are and I know that deep down, you don't truly believe that you are ugly or fat. You're just giving yourself over to stupidity and ignorance by allowing yourself to believe what some nitwit told you. And believe me, that little boy who said that about you went home and spanked his monkey thinking about you later. They alll do.

i saw your picture, and believe me im the kind of person to let you know whats the REAL DEAL! your not ugly, you just have to hook yourself up. by that, i mean do your hair. i see you have straight hair. try to put it in a pony-tail. and put a light amount of make up on. probably bronzer and mascara. for beauty and hair tips look at magazines like glamour, they can help you real good. or GOOGLE IT! =]

as for the confidence? you need it. you should build up your self-esteem. Every girl is beatiful as long as their confident about it too. excersing without letting you mom know? you should do crunches inside your room and push-ups. and at gym at school? Be prepared, and do what the gym teacher say's, it works! =]

a good way to have fun and lose weight is to join a sports team at your school, i am now in 2 sports and i have lost at least 20 a year

well on the picture it dosent look like your fat !

#1. The first way to change the way how you look, is the way you feel about yourself. As someone else stated above, look into the mirror every day and say i am pretty, also try to focus on the aspects of your self that you like the most. For example: beautiful eyes etc.
REMEMBER THOUGH, IT IS BETTER TO BE A FIRST RATE VERSION OF YOURSELF THAN A SECOND RATE VERSION OF SOMEONE ELSE.
Be yourself, and don't hold back. Last year I had a very low self esteem and I was very shy, I don't know what exactly happened that made me change my mind about how I felt, but it surely did not begin with my out side apeirance first.
Who cares about what others think about you, if you are happy and healthy, why should you feel miserable for someone elses convinience. Which by the way, I seriously do not think that everyone looks at you and says you are ugly. Guys sometimes say that just to be funny, I know it is probebly not funny to you, but they also do not want other guys making fun of them for telling a girl she is beautiful. Guys are sometimes akward, so do not listen to them about beauty tips.

dont let anyone tell you what you are.

and the key thing to remember is that if you feel pretty, you are pretty
and if you act confident, you will look that much pretty-er
i myself am not skinny by no means, but when i am confident, and dont care what others say about me, i look good. and thats all you need to remember!

but if you really want to loose weight, please do it the healthy way by exercising and healthy eating, instead of aneroxicia and bullimeia... because that is not attractive or healthy

okay.. if i were you, i'd put some brown in my hair and put a little bit of makeup on. You got glasses, but you know what, it works for you. Your not ugly and it seems to me that in the picture you arent fat. Just do something different. Dont do what your friends are doing. You're yourself. Be unique. Be different.

sweetie don't let anyone make u feel that way. everyone has their own beauty. maybe some people may not think so but u are beautiful the way u are. your friends are right. dont let anyone bring u down. all it does is hurt u. believe this or not, i used to get made fun of, i acctually still do sometimes... it does hurt. i have had tons ofd problems with people like that. they're ideots, dont let it get to u. people are just doing it to make u feel bad.

Thanks guys your all so sweet ill try everything to build up myself asteam and ill not listen to what other people say about me. i am who i am. thanks again

your not ugly, don't listen to people who do call you that.no one is, i think what makes a person ugly though is a bad personality

hi i can relate to you loads and loads with your post i have always had an extremely low confidence level and realy , realy hated myself (yh you may think im not not fat but really i am) to be honest who is pathetic enough to call someone ugly or fat .. those who feel it themselves and i have always been the fat friend too lol or hey fat one i wanna shag you but im soo over it now you just have to tell yourself that you are beautifull and pick out one thing you love about yourself e.g- eyes or chest me i think i have a pretty face and am not ashamed to say it now but at one time i cried whenever i looked in a mirror and it used too take me 3hours in the morning to prepare for school (crazy isent it) i would also suggest buying so self help books and just google and you will find some easy enough to download amazon or ebay (i got the fat girls guide to life the other day :O amazingg .. anyway MOST OF ALL DO NOT LISTEN TO SOME HORMONELY IMBALANCED SHALLOW TEENAGE BOY whos trying to make you feel bad cuz he proberly has features he dislikes such as a small nob! JUST LOVE YOURSELF because i have been in your shoes and i know it is possible too .. take care - Emme p.s i hope this helped in some way too

Dye your hair,make-up,buy new clothes,etc.There are TONS of cosmetic fixers out there,they'll make anyone beautiful.I'm in the process of making myself over right now.Let me know if you want help with anything else.

ok,DO take my advice since staying the same won't imporve your self-esteem.

wow i know exactly how you feel[well not the fat part] but in elementary school girls and guys would always make fun of me for being ugly and such. and for the friends part yes they were all so beautiful and i always feel so ugly next to them and the guys always pick them over me. enough about me though, i think your face shape is really strong[not in a manly way but model way] you can wear eye make-up to make them stand out. i found the thing that helped was magazines like seventeen and cosmogirl they have great tips for hairstyles for certain face shapes and what to wear for a certain body type. i think you're pretty already but theres some tips i guess

i dont think ur ugly at all .. i think u just need to give urself some confidence and usualy a new hair cut helps .. i wudnt go too short although ur bone structure is great so i think u cud handle it .. also try a little makeup and see whethere tht makes u feel any beter ... also all u need to to to loose weight is eat healthier and excersise a little more .. i know its easier sed thn done but all u need to do it walk tp skwl instead of the car or join an afta skwl sports club or something as simple as that ...

my only advice would be...ACCEPT WHO U R...U R ONE OF GOD'S UNIQUE CREATION AND.. UTILISE YOUR CAPABILITIES...BE PROUD TO BE URSELF..BE HONEST AND CONFIDENT IN EVERYTHING !!

Hey You are really preety, Im 13 coming 14 and everyone says that they are fat but they really arent, they are really skinny. You dont look fat, It dosent matter how big you are its what your personality is like. Good Luck X

hey hun. I know you've heard this, but be happy with who you are. If the guy calls you fat and ugly, he's a jerk anyways, and you dont need that.
You have beautiful bone structure, maybe some light blush or bronzer, I suggest blush, and for eyes, it depends on what color they are. Brown, stick with the purples and goldens, if they are blue/green, pinks, some blacks, not a lot, mostly grays. Just to high light the shape of your face. You are beautiful! I'm not saying that you need to do this, but hey, it couldnt help. And, if it boosts your confidence, then all the better!