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Im too protective over my baby?

Asked by leahbabesss about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

I've just strted to realise how protective I am over mii daughter jayden it might be because I am young ( 15 ) not sure but shes 5 months and there hasnt been a day I havnt been with her not even 10 minutes I dont think I needed to go to the doctors...

for a check up and my mum offered to look after jayden but I couldnt let herr ! And shes my mum !! I have now moved in with jaydens dad and I dont leave jayden alone with him ! Am I to protective ?

Answered by dawnathen on Jul 30, 2008, 04:56PM
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Oh most definitley!!! Having babies are way exciting! It will take some time to let others hold your baby for a long period of time. A long period of time to me was 10- 15 mintues!!!

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Answered by dawnathen on Jul 30, 2008, 04:33PM
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Oh no. She's just an infant still. No such thing, to me, as too protective. The first 8 or 9 months of my daughters life nobody got to hold her for more than 5 minutes! I wanted her back. Your a mama! thats your job.

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Answered by allymay67 on Jul 30, 2008, 04:33PM
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Well I dont have a baby and never was pregant but I think you will eventually get out of that stage

Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 30, 2008, 04:40PM
112 answers

I am pregnant now, and I'm 15. I honestly don't think I'll be real protective just because the people around me have had children of their own and are responsible. But, I don't think there is really a problem with you being that way. But, if it eventually turns into a habit, and once your daughter gets older and into her toddler years, it might not be a great idea. But she IS your daughter and you only care for her.

Answered by dawnathen on Jul 30, 2008, 04:41PM
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sadielynn: once that baby is born, you will be protective. I promise you. Once you see that little face and feel how good it feels to hold him/her in your arms, you'll never want to let the darling go!

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Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 30, 2008, 04:49PM
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Dawmathen - You are more than likely right. I know that if I am, I'll have to learn to let other people help me out too. It would probably help me out a lot. I really excited though happy

Answered by sadielynn1447 on Jul 30, 2008, 04:59PM
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lol, I hold my boyfriend's sister's baby all the time. I'd just be scared if someone would drop my baby, or not hold his/her neck right, or lay her/him down wrong or choke her/him if they fed her. So... not a lot of people would probably be holding her/him. lol.