Im really scared and i need advice

okay this might seem really stupid but im soo clueless about stuff like pleasuring your boyfriend and stuff :/ and me and my boyfriend have ahad sex a few times now.

I was wonderign about poppping your cherry? is that were it bleeds? do you have to...

pop your cherry?

Your cherry is actually your hymen which is very easy to break. Yeah some people do have a bit of blood when this happens, some don't. You don't HAVE TO pop your cherry but if you had sex 3 times the chances that your cherry is popped are pretty high.

okay well if you've had sex already you should know that you're cherry has been popped thats when a woman loses her virginity and after you have sex for the first time...you bleed...so that means your cherry has been popped...you're no longer a virgin...

According to your profile, you're 13.
Not only are you 13, but you admitted yourself that you're clueless about sex.

You should not be having sex.

Why are you worrying about something AFTER the fact? Underwaterphelia is 100% right. You are TOO young to be having sex! Its usually best to get educated before doing something you dont understand!

im no 13and imnot clueless about sex its other stuf you fanny your not in charge of my life.

and to the other people thank use soo much youv really helped me I feel a lot better nw xx

If you're clueless about sex, then why are you having sex?