Im in love with my boyfriend whos bein mean and took my virginity

I was having sex with my boyfriend and everything now he wont talk to me since the day he started school, I went over to see his step mom because shes dieing and he talks to me but I leave and ignores me...I feel like im in love with him and he took my...

virginity so I dont know how to handle it. I've been in love with him a long time.

wait what? os let me get this straight, this guy is still your boyfriend, his step mom is dieing, and you think your in love with him? mybe he just used you for sex :/ I don't know. maybe he lost intrest, but I could be way wrong, you dint really give specific details like how long u2 were going out and if he ignores your calls or if just ignores you in school, if hes even still your boyfriend, be more specific.

weve been datin since 7/5/08, we are still together I think, he blocked me on a social site and a social site and I havent talked to him for 3 weeks, and I truely think im in luv with him, he always said it back(he loves me) but now hes being a jerk and I dont know why. he has adhd, hes 14, and hes bipolar

First, I think he may have a lot on his mind...his mom is dieing. I really do not think you are the first thing he is thinking about. Also, I am sure he does not want his mom to know that he is dating a girl or is sexually active. Also, you say he has these different psychological disorders which I am sure affect his judgement and the way he acts around people. And really it may come down to that he just wanted to try having sex and that was all. He is only 14. He is not mature whatsoever.
And I worry for you. The minimum normal age to start having sex is 16. You are way below that. At this age, you should still enjoy being a kid, not a grownup. You need to wait a couple more years before having sex again. Be a kid and have fun!

WOW!! Dump his ignorant morone!! Can you not see that he just used you for sex?? If he is ignoring you after you two have sex and he blocked you from those web sites then he isn't worth it. Don't think that just becuase his step mom is dying is why he is compleltly ignoring you!!! He doesn't deserve anyone! Seriously just get on with your life, your young so you have the rest of your life to find a guy that is super nice to you and will love you back and will be with you for you not sex.

well like we went a long time doing nothing but it does seem like maybe he used me but I don't know I went to his house today to try talking to him he said hed unblock me so uk...I hate when you give a guy a bj or whatever and he says I love you so much baby while hes horny...thats what he does, esp today, like I don't know it seems like he does but I don't know...its hard he was my first love ever and you know its so hard...definatly was a mistake shoulda just enjoyed dating not sex, was actually my idea...my dumb one...