Im 4 months preg and starting to show what shall I do?

I havent told anyone and im only 13 !!!

Answer #1

Look sweetie, if you were raped you need to let people know. Yes it is too late to get an abortion, and it wouldn’t be right. This baby is full developed, just to small to be born yet. There are many clinics that will help you, and will find you people who want your baby badly, because they are unable to have their own. As for the people saying you would be “abandoning” your baby, you’re not. You’re only 13 years old and have no means to raise this child, you can’t get an adequate education with a child, and you will never beable to look at her/him without thinking she or he is the product of rape. You have to get prenatal care though…if you don’t this baby could suffer serious mental and physical problems. oh and btw, adopted parents are “fake” parents, they’re the people who raised you…although I’m not adopted, I know a few people who are…and their mom and dad are their mom and dad, not their “fake” parents…family doesn’t have to be somebody that you’re linked to in dna, it’s somebody who loves you and cares for you no matter what. Being a mother isn’t like playing house, it’s a real job, where you have to care for another person besides yourself…your parents are old enough and mature enough to understand that you can not raise a child, and that this baby would be better off with other people who can do this for them, make the right choice, and do it not only for you, but for this baby so she or he has life chances.

Answer #2

Ummm in another question you answered you said you got pregnant bc your boy friend cant wear condoms? You also said you were in a long distance relationship and that your boyfriend is going to be there when you give birth? I pretty sure your lying about somthing.

Answer #3

you got raped, you need to go to the police, and you need to tell your parents, I cant believe you have waited this long child! Tell someone quick! do you know who raped u?? FUNMAIL ME!

Answer #4

Time to grow up. You made the decision to keep it, now you have to start being responsible and tell someone so you can get a prenatal check up.

Answer #5

when is your due date?

Answer #6

Get a prenatal check up…tell your parents and the father to be …decide what is best for you…keep the child or give it up for adoption…abortion is no longer an option. You are putting your baby at risk for birth defects and yourself at risk for death by not getting a prenatal check up. You have to be responsible for your decision to have unprotected sex, get pregnant and not tell anyone.

Answer #7

either way if you want it or not you are going to have to tell your parents :/ they need to find out one way or another. Tell them your fears, ask for advice etc. from them and im sure you will all come top a desicion together :) good luck

Answer #8

if you didnt want it in the first place, you shouldve used your head and told someone and thought about abortion, but now its too late, so theres not much to do now but get check ups and stay healthy

Answer #9

It’s too late to abort it, but you need to be getting prenatal care so your baby is getting the care it needs. You can give it up for adoption, but you need to get the care you need and the care the baby needs and then you can look into adoption which I highly recommend because you’re only 13 and you can not take care of this baby on your own. You made the choice to have sex, so now you have to be responsible.

Answer #10

No, it is too late to “not keep it” if you wanted 2 get an abortion you had to do it sooner. Be prepared ; no matter what, this baby is going to come out of you. My personal poinion would be to keep it. What would you think if your mother had abandoned you at birth, you would grow up with fake parents. You need to help this LIVING BEING. Tell someone, they will find out on their own, its better for them 2 hear it from you, they will trust you, and know that you are honest. Please funmail meif you need more help. :d. thats what im here for!! :)

Answer #11

^^^R you SERIOuS!>>> you need 2call the cops && NOWWW your parents wont be mad if its rape! CALL COPSSS NOWWW

Answer #12

OMFG 3 F”CKING THING 2 Say 2 You 2 “TOO F”CKING YOUNG”

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