Im 14 and maybe pregnant what can i do? please help!

im 14 and I think I might be pregnant. please dont judge me as I didnt mean to...we were using a condom but I think it split and I am on the pill but I forgot to take it that day...I have missed a period and im getting loadz of other symptoms too.

im...

scared to tell my parents because the only people that know are my friends because I know I can trust them! who can I talk to apart from a counscellor to help me with this!?!?!

im so scared because I dont talk to my mum about anything and she will be so mad if im pregnant because my family are so prude and well respected but I just dont fit in!

who can help me?

x x x

There's not much anyone here can do if you're pregnant - you're going to have to tell your parents.

First, though, get a pregnancy test done and make sure before you say anything to anyone.

hun..you have to tell your parents...

okay hun, calm down, first thing is take care of yourself, if you are actually pregnant, you have a long journey ahead and it will be better to stay calm. The first thing you should do is buy a pregnancy test at a drug store or somewhere close.
If you are pregnant you are going to have to tell your parents eventually.
But if your not, there is no use in pissing them off.
You can also try going to a clinic close to where you live, or find one of your friends who can drive and the people there will be able to help you.
Good Luck!!!

ok just go c a dr! thats the best thing 2 do!
get some pee tests from walmart or something!
tell your parents if you come out positive!
God bless!
good luck!

I would strongly suggest telling your parent but if you can't just yet then the next best thing would be to take a pregnancy test. If its negative then of course you can forget about the whole situation. If its positive then the next step is going to be telling your parents. It's something you have to do, they may be mad initially but they are there to help you and guide you through. I'm sure it will be fine. Good luck and look after yourself.

-x-

before you tell your parents go to a free clinic and get a pregnecy test to see if you are pregnant...and if you are just tell your parent as smooth and softly as possible

im srry if im not much help...but I totaly get what your saying when you dont fit in with your family...kuz I dont either my family is high into religion and protecting your body... but I am athiest, cutt myself, have 2 tattoos, and am not a vergin ( but my parents dont know any of this )

Ya shouldn't have had sex at 14...it's your own fault...take a test...if you are pregnant then tell your parents...do NOT get and abortion...give it up for adoption

first off, dont you have to get a note or something from your parents to go on the pill?
second, dont say you didnt mean to have sex..if you didnt mean to, then you wouldnt have...

DO NOT GET AN ABORTION if you are infact pregeant!!! thats the WORST thing you can do! its MURDER!

before you tell your parents, take a pregeancy test first. get a couple different brands b/c they/re not always 100% correct. if you are, then tell your mom. shes going to find out anyway. would you rather have your mom find out by somebody else telling her, or her seeing your stomach in the next few months? either way she's going to find out.

Until you know for sure that you are pregnant then don't stress yourself out. being so worried and anxious may actually be causing you symptoms and could have made you miss a period. Stress can do weird things to you body. If you are pregnant then you need to decide what you want to do. When I found out I was pregnant I was too scared to tell my mum as well. Eventually she said to me one day What's wrong with you? You've been very quiet and moody lately. and I burst into tears and told her. Yes she was mad. But I was too upset to really care about her yelling at me. It will be hard, yes. I know, I have been there. I'd strongly advise against getting an abortion. I went down that path and have hated myself for it ever since and that was 3 years ago.

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I think I am too, and im 17
I've read that you can take 6000 mg of vit c and put parsley in your vag, but it has to be in the first two weeks of pregnancy, I think..
and I know what you mean about not fitting in, my parents are pretty prestige too, and im just.. not
I smoke, drink, have tattos that they dont know about, boyfriend that they hate, piercings, but dude.. itll be alright, you are your own person..
saying is that if things turn to crap, they ussually turn to runny crap before they get better, but they do get better!
can I have any help either?
im against abortion, im not smoking or drinking since the day of. It was sunday 5 in the morning april the 12th... I am a little crampy, and it was 2 day after my period :S god im stupid
when is the soonest I can take a pregnacy test???

hey hun..
dontt worry it wont helpp youu if your stressing out.!.
take a deep breath. it happens to the best off people..
my best mate told me that she had sex with her boyfriend
and got pregnant and she is 12 + just started her period.

youu have got to tell yourr parents but dont feel pressured
do it when yourr ready but sooner than later .!.

tel themm.. youu havee got too makee suree your defently
youu couldd go too youur family doctor andd if youu ask them
they will not be able to tell yourr parents but they will advise youu
to. and ii suree every1 else does..

have youu decided if youu are gona get rid off it ?
(my friend did)
but youu havee gott too make suree youu defently are .!.

either go to your doctor to have a check up or get a preggnasy test..

tell your parents + dont stress your self out..

hope this helped (:

x x

well first off wheres the father of the baby?he should be by your side...yes your young but you have to take responsibilities for both your actions...now about who should you tell thats your mother I understand where you come from with you dont tell her nothing and your family is so proud etc.. because thats my family as well, but at the end of the day she will be the only one there for you to help with anything yes she will be mad at the beginning but after it will go away...thats your bestfriend she knows you better then anyone so some how she will find that so I think is better for you to tell her yourself and take it from there good luck let me know how it went.