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Im 14 and dont know

Asked by angelbaby67 2 months ago, 6 answers.

Im 14 and might be pregnant but im afraid my mom is gonna kill me or worse kick me out!! and my boyfriends condom fell off, and I dont belive in abortions and I dont wanna put my baby up for adoption! its just me and my boyfriend are too young yet to get...

a job and my mom lost her job but im sure my step dad will help us.And me and him are engaged right now.. but what should I do

Answered by jaxx on Sep 11, 2009, 03:26AM
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you know I agree with both of these answers.
YOU SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX AT 14, your a child yourself my girl.
anyway, whats done is done, now its time much like the previous answer stated, for you to take responsibility for your actions. you have to tell your mother, and be very prepared for her to get very angry at first, be prepared for her to scream at you, call you a slut the works... she will calm down in the end. but she may forbid you from seeing this boyfriend of yours... for your own good she may think!! but your mother loves you, and whatever she does will be in your best interest... so listen and be rational with her choice.

good luck, be more careful next time!! wink

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the new and older me! Answered by mandycats on Sep 11, 2009, 02:22AM
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your too young to be having sex, to young to take care of a child and too young to go through this crap, you need to seriously rethink the option of abortion if you dont want to adopt! if you had sex within the last day find a way to get your hands on a morning after pill, but if you know your pregnant for a fact then your gonna have to deal with the fact that you made the adult decision to have sex...this is what happens when you have sex...trust me I know.

me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate on Sep 11, 2009, 02:34AM
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first find out if your pregnant
to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after you had sex
(any sooner and the results won’t be accurate)
in the morning with your first pee is the best time
and take it when your period is due
alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test
this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results

also you both sound like your moving way to fast
its illegal to get married before the age of 18, unless you have a good reason (and unfortnantly because you 'love eachother' doesnt count to the people who decide)
you also should'nt be havings sex at your age
but at least you did wear a condom when you did
it might be best to go on birth control (after the baby is born of course)
so theres a much less chance of it happening again in the future
first talk to your boyfreind about this if you do turn out to be pregnant, does he want a baby, is he ready to become a father? is he willing to support you?
and are you ready to become a mother? are you ready to put your childhood and social life, education, ect on hold for quite a few years to care for the baby?
it might be best to talk to your mum about this,
and unless shes a cold heartless woman, she'll realise her daughter made a mistake and needs her help and support right now
you should also talk to your stepdad and ask him for his support, if he can help you raise your child for a bit you might be able to continue your school education
that school education is extreemly important because you need that to get a job and to work and earn money that goes towards caring for yourself and your baby and everything he/she will need

Answered by adrianna14 on Sep 12, 2009, 05:25PM

I am 14 and 35 weeks pregnant and age does not matter but just tell your mother.If your mom gets upset just try to make her understand what happend.

kitty Answered by ty on Sep 13, 2009, 10:38PM
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stop what ifing. Take a test. And you cant legally get married at age 14.

bOrickua shawtix Answered by boricuashawtix3 on Sep 18, 2009, 12:10PM
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im 14 5 weeks aqe doesnt matter juss please dont qet an abortion ! you sure you cant qet a job ? some places hire at 14 how old is your boyfriend is he old enouqh to work ? try to save up money when the babys born qet help from wic social services thats what ima do if you need advice funmail me =]

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