If you give me advice i will give you advice also

okay so
I sometimes want my b/f to back off.
Sometime for no reason he just gets on my nerves. When He comes over unexpectedly Im like o great in a not so happy tone. I even give the poor guy an attitude
At first I thought maybe Im not into him...

anymore. But I also know if we break up IM going to miss him and want him back. Also the thought og him with somebody else brings me such pain. What is with me honestly
I know I been a B towards him. But why? How could I want someone I love to leave me alone?

Well, a healthy relationship is where two people have their own identities, and have their own time, space!

well, how often does he actually come over or do you guys talk? it kinda sounds like whats going on with me, but on my girlfriends side, and she's mean too sometimes. But it could just be that, you do actually like him, but if you see him everyday and he comes over everyday unannounced it could be irritating, if anything try and do different things and spice it up, it could possibly be that just the one or two things that he does, irritates you. My girlfriend irritates me a lot sometimes, but I love her and I put up with it and feel better usually after wards.

maybe that might be why slightly, or I'm not to sure honestly, because my own problem is similar in a way. we talk every single day, over the phone and on the computer. help with homework, watch movies, etc. Maybe though its just a little thing about him that irritates you, however sometimes little irritants can turn into things you grow to love about the person

well said angelfire2708,

The best thing you can do is talk to him about exactly how you feel..
as much as it might surprise you, us blokes cant actually read minds and need to be told how you're feeling and how we're making you feel.

Talk to him about how youfeeel...
Tell him you love him and that you just need time to yourself sometimes.
Everyone needs time to themselves.

ox.