If a girl can't orgasm, does she dislike sex? (continued)

Now what if this was the first girl you ever been through this with?And for the last few years she has been cumin, but lately she doesn't want to ride or anything. To me it seems like she don't want to cum. To me she's become sexually lazy. For years, we...

used to do at least 12-14 times a week, and now its like once a week. She doesn't want to be turned on. And i know it ain't no other dude and it ain't the sex cuz I'm very very blessed in that department. do u think stress messes with your mind and body? Or are we just getting old and tired of each other cuz its been 5 years? or what?

Well I feel the same way. I use to love sex! I didnt do it 12-14 times a week but i still loved it! lol I would say like almost everyday i would do it. However recently i have been the same way as ur gf. Ive been with my bf for 2 years and i just never want to have sex or do ne thing! We now have sex about once a month. I know one thing that really bugs me and makes me not want to do it is that he talks about it to much. He always bugs me to do this and that with him and it get annoying. I still love sex and think about it a lot. But yes stress can mess with ur mind and body. If shes really stressed she may become a lil depressed which in that case she really wouldnt want to have sex. But my advice is that if u do talk about it a lot, stop. and also try something new. One of the only ways i can get turned on now with my bf is if we watch porn, which i never thought i would do.