How do I get him out of my life- for good?

There's this guy named Brian that I have been talking to and hanging out with and doing other activities with. This has been going on for about a year and I know he isn't a good person at all. I'm getting sick of him telling me he loves me and wants to be with me when he has a girlfriend that he is off and on and about 20 other girls at the same. I just want him out of my life for good. He isn't worth my attention anymore but I don't know how to get him out of my life because he always comes back to me and I always go back to him because I still have strong feelings for him...help me... xoxo aj

Sue is right - you two are drawn to each other like addicts. You're getting something out of it that feels good when you're doing it, and bad later on. The problem is, if you just quit doing something cold turkey, there will be a hole left, and unless you fill it with something else, you'll just go back when you are weak and vulnerable. SO - fill the void with healthy, fun and productive activities you enjoy, and take some time to figure out why you have wasted so much time on someone so bad for you. Remember: you can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first.

Meg ;-)

You already know the right thing to do. 'Just Do It' You don't have to give him any detailed reasons. Just tell him that 'you don't want him to be your friend anymore under any sircumstances'. Period! Then move on. Why would you want to be part of his harem?? You are better than that. Good Luck. Gino

Dear ajgirl,
People can be like an addiction. We have them around for a long time even though they are bad for us. It's hard to give it up because it is familiar. Since you know his hangouts you avoid them completely. If he calls don't answer his calls. Like an addiction you avoid the problem. He only comes back because you let him...if you truly want to be free of him you will take responsibility for your actions stay away from him.
Sue...good luck

Greetings,
Obviously you 2 are in love ^_^ accept him and love away, but ofcourse, you should not take things to far until your old enough.-phil2611

get ride of him and get a new strong boyfriend so when he asks you out again he cant