How can I stop the guilt from sleeping with my friend's man?

I had a friend a couple of years ago. She wasn't my best friend but we still hung out almost everyday. I had a feeling that her boyfriend liked me but I never payed much attention to him. One night he called me drunk asking for a ride. She had called me previously to that stating that he had left and she was not sure where he was but if he called to please take him home. So I picked him up and took him home. On our way to his house he started hitting on me and we ended up having sex. We had sex a couple of times after that and then I stopped answering his calls. He called me a couple of days ago to ask me to go out with him. I said no.He then proceeded to tell me that he told her that we had been together while they were going out(they have been broken up for a while). It was suppose to be a secret, nobody knew. I was so angry. I feel really bad because I know I hurt her and what goes around comes back around. I also feel bad because she knows a lot of people that I know and I'm sure she's told them. She has not talked to me for a long time.How do I deal with people knowing?What should I do with all of this guilt?

Do not worry at all. If a man blackmails that girl with who he made sex, then tells their affair around then that man is so characterless that everybody should turn away for him. What you did, making sex with your friends b/f is not so big guilt than you think about it now....This thing happens frequently. Ok, it is not a glory, but belongs to the life. If anybody tells you anything about this stroy answer that you never thought that this boy's character is like that of the rat. Discretion is one of the men's main value.

well 1st you need 2 seal things up wit her before worrin about what peoople think.then you need 2 ask him can you boh just b friends and nothn oust.c if that worcks.if not than you need 2 just move on an stop worrin so much about what people say about you just b u.

Well, I hate to say it, but you made your bed now you have to sleep in it. Meaning you chose to have sex with your friends boyfriend, before actually thinking about it first, now you have to deal with the after affects! If you dont have the decency to say NO to his advances, then you have whats coming to you. Theres NO excuse even though he was drunk, but you were in the right state of mind, you should have said NO!!! No one can tell you what to do about the guilt. You have to handle it the best way you know how!

Well, your guilt will subside as long as you do not hide from this and are honest. You lost your girlfriend forever, just kiss her goodbye and be polite otherwise. You'll have to learn your lesson. Make new friends, etc. You did an unforgivable thing--therefore you are going to have to pay the price and lose the friendship and lose face with the other people who know about it. Oh well. The best thing to do is move on and live upfront and honestly with the rest of your relationships.

you meseed up so you have to fix it tell her how sorry you are and that it's over and it was a while ago and tell him to leave you alone he was a jerk to tell her like hll I be pissed good luck with that