I moved out and my mom wants me back..

My mom came to me.. well, she called me haha.. but she called me crying saying she wanted me back and she was sorry. First, it’s kinda awkward so I don’t really want to come back. Just kidding but it is awkward (I’ll just let that one slide) cause I usually don’t see her cry.. I NEVER see her cry.

But here’s the deal, I am 18 years old. My birthday was on November 28, 2008 and I moved out the day after to a friend’s house. We were able to get an apartment the next week and now I have a job. The reason I did this was because my parents were too strict on me and never gave me anything. They took away my friends, I was never allowed to get a job and now when I finally get a job I have to pay bills because as a teenager (unless you count me as one right now.. Young Adult Teenagers.. :) ;)) my mom wouldn’t let me have a job ever and even when my 18th birthday was coming up she said if I wanted to stay with her I must stay in school and not have a job so I can focus on my studies. Well, I stayed in school.. If I had a job earlier, I’d have money saved, would have been able to buy things I wanted etc without having to pay all that extra money on bills. Hell, my first job for about a month was at a Mcdonalds my mom’s friend opened up and I was able to buy me tons of new clothes and shoes and an ipod and still afford to pay the bills and rent (I shop online and I know where to go. Secrets. Haha, I’m a bishhh) but gosh..

:/ That’s not the only reason. Just pretty much regular teenager strictness my mother did 10x more. What about my father? He didn’t really do much. All he did was keep his job and rape me and go to prison.. just kidding he just didn’t do anything.

Should I come back? Okay, what

Answer #1

YOU SHOULD STAY WHERE YOU ARE YOULL HAVE TO MOVE OUT OF YOUR PARENTS EVENTUALLY WHY NOT NOW?

Answer #2

I’d stay put. If you move back home, your mom is going to take away all the freedom you have and that includes stopping you from working. Its your choice though. If you do move back, just tell your mom to let you keep your job. If that doesn’t work, then stay put where you’re at. I know I wouldn’t want to move back home.

Answer #3

think that you should go back but keep your job and not let them tell you what to do because I think that you are old enough and mature enough to make your own descisions.

Answer #4

Do what you want. Not what anyone else wants. If you want to go back, go back. But tell your mom that you’re not giving up your job or anything. And if she won’t agree to that, I’d stay where you are now.

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