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I made the right choice by dumping him, right?

Asked by xxlifeistooshortxx about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

I gave this guy another chance. I went out with him last year and now this year, but he started being really mean to me. My mom is very overprotective, she won't let me go on dates, have a MySpace, etc. He would get on the phone with me and just be like...

your dad is a fat d*ck and your mom is an overprotective ugly b*tch. He would tell me he loved me and call me baby, and if I didn't talk to him on the phone, he threatened to stop all this. When he called, if I didn't answer, he would leave very hurtful messages on my voicemail. When he shoved me into the wall just to get me to kiss him, I broke up with him. Now he wants me back but I feel like he was causing me to go crazy!!! was I right for dumping him and not taking him back??

Answered by ty on Apr 13, 2008, 10:06AM
10179 answers

These sound like exact signs of an abusive partner...
The guy tries to seperate you from your famly, threatens you then tells you he loves you, actually physically shoved you, forced you to kiss him?
Yes you made the right decision, stay far far away from this person...
Do you know how many women are killed every year by absuive partners?

Answered by angelfire2708 on Apr 13, 2008, 10:14AM
7794 answers

How can you even ask if you made the right choice in dumping this jerk? You need to ask yourself why you would even put up with being treated like that, then reread what you just wrote. In a loving healthy relationship, people dont disrespect one another! That is control, NOT love!

Answered by darthornx on Apr 13, 2008, 10:28AM
263 answers

YES of coarse you made the right hoice, you need a guy that cherishes you not hurts you and also one that respects your family and can understand that your mom just doesn't want her little girl getting hurt. so yes you definitly made the right choice you shouldn't have to think twice about it

Answered by pinkpearl on Apr 13, 2008, 11:41AM
2038 answers

Can you imagine anyone thinking that you made the wrong choice? Makre sure he has no way of contacting you, and if he calls, your parents should answer the phone.

Answered by monicadeann13 on Apr 13, 2008, 12:11PM

You did the right thing by dumping him and not getting back with him. It sounds to me like his abusive and you don't want to be in a relationship like that things will only get worse instead of better.