I love my ex boyfriend and i want him back

my boyfriend and I just split yesterday because he said we needed a break
because we only get to see eachother once or twice a week.

don't you think it would be the other way around and we would need a break
if we seen eachother to much. but he says...

he dont know how this will work
if my mom can never take me to his house because he cant always come to
mine.

I dontknow if its the gas money or what. maybe there is something else
going on with him.

but I love him so much and its only been a day but I miss him already. we
barely see eachother because we are in differnet schools and live about 15
miles away.

yeah he drives but I guess he dont feel like coming to see me all the
time. I gave it all to him.

maybe he lost respect or interest in me. he says he loves me and I asked
if he wanted to see other people and he said no just a break.

whats that suppose to mean..I mean if he loved me as much as he claimed
then he would wait for me to be able to do things right? what can I do?
any advice..please tell me asap.

Maybe he has done something that has made him feel guilty about himself and he needs time to him self to sort it out. Example cheat on you, or just have feelings for someone else. Dont ask him if he has cheated or anything though that might just make things worse. I think maybe you should call him (since its hard to see him) and have a heart to heart talk to him. It is so much harder when you dont have transport to see him cause it puts pressure on him driving all the time and gas money aswell. Talk to him and ask him is it really just that we dont see eachother enough that we need a break? if so this is wrong, we should be trying to see eachother more often. I love you so much and i dont want us to end over something like this it isnt worth it. Have you done anything to hurt me at all? Try and get it out of him. keep me posted please......

hey thanks for the advice..i havent came on here and looked at it till now..he claims he never cheated on me or anything. still i do not know why he broke up with me for sure. he just says it was to hard. we go to 2 different schools, he is 2 years older than me, i can't drive and my mother won't take me anywhere. but i thought if he loved me he would still be with me no matter what but i guess i was wrong. i still love him and always will but i guess it is time to move on..thanks again for the advice and if you want some advice or just want to talk my email is Fun mail me thanks

hey thanks for the advice..i havent came on here and looked at it till now..he claims he never cheated on me or anything. still i do not know why he broke up with me for sure. he just says it was to hard. we go to 2 different schools, he is 2 years older than me, i can't drive and my mother won't take me anywhere. but i thought if he loved me he would still be with me no matter what but i guess i was wrong. i still love him and always will but i guess it is time to move on..thanks again for the advice and if you want some advice or just want to talk my email is Fun mail me thanks

hey thanks for the advice..i havent came on here and looked at it till now..he claims he never cheated on me or anything. still i do not know why he broke up with me for sure. he just says it was to hard. we go to 2 different schools, he is 2 years older than me, i can't drive and my mother won't take me anywhere. but i thought if he loved me he would still be with me no matter what but i guess i was wrong. i still love him and always will but i guess it is time to move on..thanks again for the advice and if you want some advice or just want to talk my email is Fun mail me thanks

wel i know how u feel love i had the same prob but just try and tell him how much you feel 4 him just when you c him try and let him know that your sad tell his mates how much you feel 4 him you never no they might have a word and he might change his maind anyway i hope this helps you

hi well ive got the same problem n it hurt thinking he doesnt love you anymore i've tried to phone him but he won't listen to me and i fell as if i've done something wrong try and fone him take my advice XXstephanieXX

its sad things like this happens. mY boyfriend too broke up with me without any realy concrete reasons. he said i was loving and caring and understanding but he said he was just fed up and that we were just two different people. Over what? I dont know. We dont even fight. He's just not into you have you heard of this book? I read this after our break up and believe me its quite ennlightening...like...he's just not that into you if he's breaking up with you. Because when a guy really loves a girl, he'll do anything to keep the love of his life...And that the only reason a guy misses his ex is because he chooses not to be with you...everyday...Poll even said that 100% of guys know that they're absolutely aware of doing such a terrible thing to a girl....
It s easier said though than accepted. I for one have a hard time understanding that. But hopefully , you could see the other side of the coin and decide if you'd really do anything for him or just simply accept the fact that hes just not into you. T_T

..aND by the way...if you choose to go after him.....first give him space.Stop all calls, stop all communication, because if you keep on running after him, it will only push him to even more stay away from you. Give it atleast a month and be va-va-voom as you are. Then ask him to talk things up, in person. If he just doesnt want to be with you...then I guess you just have to accept that. Sooner or later you'll find another guy whos really worth your time and love.

Hi there. Well I am 22 year old Woman who has been with a guy for 2 years that is that way too but we live over 15 miles away haha he is 26 has his own house and I am staying with my parents for a year or so to finish school to become a nurse. Some guys are just like that they tend to be lil on the selfish side sometimes...guys who are stubborn and thinks the whole relationship is all about them. I love my ex boyrfriend we have been through so much together. The answer I think is just be patient he might be going through a phase of some kind (all guys do this at some point) be there for him when he needs you and let everything fall into place...don't think about it to much because it will drive you nuts and that is being selfish as well... I know it's hard to be there for someone ...let me tell you my story...
Britt and I have been dating for 2 year (were) and since he lives out on his own he has a lot of time to spare lol all he does is go home and hang with friends..He makes 4 times as much as I do. I am about to go to school and I am a single parent. He doesn't come see me about maybe on mondays when he is off work and then we both work 1st but I got tired of it. I want to be a family...but he didn't want that..which I understand that ...whatever his reasons maybe girl respect it..and move on and think about you for once...keep your mind off of things (I know it's hard) but trust me on this ...it works out ! there is TONS of men out there. When you get out of school go out with friends trust me there will be tons of guys around you and college what not..you'll see what I am talking about. Be patient and let things fall in to place!

OMG I TOTALLY AM GOING THROUGH THE EXACT SAME THING.WE BARLEY SEEN EACH OTHER EITHER.BUT DISTANCE MAKES THA HEART GROW FONDER.IM STILL TRYING OT FIGURE OUT THE REAL REASON WE BROKE UP.WE MAY NEVER KNOW.BUT SOONER OR LATER IF HE DID LOVE you HE'LL REALIZE HE MADE A MISTAKE.BUT JUST GIVE HIM A BREAK STOP TALKING TO HIM AND THE LESS you TALK TO HIM THE MORE HE'LL REALIZE U MOVED ON
AND WANT you BACK MORE THAN before.HAHA I HOPE THAT WORKS AND I HOPE IT WORKS FOR ME 2.LOL.I CAN GIVE ADVICE I JUST CANT TAKE IT.LOL