I love him so much but he's treating me so bad

hi, I'v being with my boyfriend more than 3 years.im 20yrs old for this december he's 25yrs old.he has been a very good guy to me but now he's very bad. I mean he says that he loves me but I don't feel anything like that from him.now he don't cum to...

meet me, he doesn't call me like he has done earlier he doesn't even sms me.now he only saying good night I love u.somedays he comes to pick me from my office bt he doesn't like to go out with me.when im asking the reason that you're nt talkin, he says that he was too busy to sms me, to call me.everytime im trying to talk with him solve these things but he dosen't like to talk about problems.that time he's screamin at me telling that I know only to ruin his day,I don't have anything other than problems,im sick. he's scolding at me like that.everyday,every night im cryin be'because of these things.bt he dosen't care about that me now.bt I want him so much.before 2 months I'v cought him chatting with other girls. he said that he did that only for fun he apologized. bt he broke my heart I can never forget that mistake he did.bt most of all he's treating me so bad.sometimes he says that he loves me bt I don't feel anything like that b'because of the wrong way he's treating me.but when I stay closely to him,I feel that he loves me he wants me too.bt when we are apart from distance he dosen't care about me.bt earlier he has been very good guy to me,I felt his love he was there for me.bt now I feel so lonley.I don't know what to do?I love him so much.more than my life I want him.I don't want to live without him I won't live without him. because he's my everything.bt I cant take these things anymore.that much he's hurting me.im so fed up of my life wish I was dead now I just want to die soon. pls help me.is he loving me still?what shall I do?

Talk to a friend about it or someone you can trust. If you do get chance to talk to him be calm try not to seem like an over protective girlfriend. Chances are that he does still like you and he probaly doesn't know how to express it or something like that.

If you still feel like your relationship is not too good or you too are drifting apart maybe you should look for someone else. Also with an age gap of 5 years, maybe he wants different things then you. Nothing in this world is worth killing yourself over especially not some guy!!! If you want to try and feel happier go shopping with some of your friends or night clubbing just try and have some fun and forget about him for a little while. good luck

You don't want him, you want who he use to be. Ditch him, he probably won't even notice from the sounds of it, and you won't feel any lonelier than you felt with him for the time that it takes you to heal ...but maybe later you will meet someone who makes you feel great and treats you how you deserve to be treated.

I have the same problem I come home cook, clean fix his plate bring him his food and drink take his plate to the kitchen all he does is watch tv he doesnt touch me kiss me talk to me or anything if I try to talk to him he says I am trying to start an argument.he use to hit me but he hasnt in a while I stay and the bedroom and he slleeps on the couch until he wants sex I try to figure what I do wrong to be treated this way I also take care of his daughter as though she was my own