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I like my best guy friend. Helpp
Me and him are really close friends. He flirts with me all the time. But he says that he doesn’t think of me that way (He tells others that). I’m starting to question that now, because of the things hes done with me lately, its staring to get obvious he has feelings 4 me, I’m jsut not sure. But he has a girlfriend. (shes a 8th grader and hes in 11th they’ve been going out fr a couple months) I really don’t now what to do. I like him so much and I can’t tell any one at school because he will find out a bad way. So should I say something, its like eating me aliveee.
But he says that he doesn’t think of me that way (He tells others that).>>So you think hes lieing? Just because someone flirts with you, doesnt mean they like you. I think you are reading way too much into everything he does, because you want him to like you, but hes told people he doesnt think of you that way, so why would you assume he likes you? Its because YOU like him, and your finding anything to convince yourself that he likes you.
The fact that he has a girlfriend should tell you to back off. Hes not available! You need to stop flirting with him, and you need to show some pride and self-control. If he liked you like you think he does, then he would be with you, not someone else! I believe he sees you as a friend, and theres nothing wrong with alittle harmless flirting between friends.
Of course he can’t think of you that way, he has a girlfriend. He’s off limits. He probably likes the attention he gets from flirting with other girls, and regard it as harmless fun. He can take his cake and eat it too.
You can tell him how you feel, if it makes you feel better, but don’t expect him to drop his girlfriend for you instantly. And if he does, that’s pretty insensitive of him towards his girlfriend, you wouldn’t want to date a guy knowing that he can drop you like a sack of potatoes the moment another girl tells him that she likes him, would you?
He’s taken, so at least that way, you can’t afford to get yourself emotionally worked up about him. No point if they’re taken. Try talking to other boys. The flirting might very well be harmless fun, but when you have a huge crush on someone, you get determined to take it a little further. Just keep reminding yourself that he’s unavailable. Whatever qualities you like about him, you could try seeking in other guys :)
Tell him that you want to work things out, if it isn’t too late. I bet he misses you, even if he never tells you. Some men hide their true feelings until they are faced with a situation that forces them to tell you. If he’s not a very open person, then he may ger shy about it. Maybe he’s basically trying to look all macho about yours and his break-up, but deep down he probably is missing you. Good luck :)
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