How can i get my boyfriend's mom to like me?

ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months now and is't pretty good but his mother is a problem. well see i think his mother dislikes me or even hates me i know it, she acts nice to my face but i know she hates me i just can tell and he...

has told me all the shit she says about my mom and me when we have never done a thing to her . well this could be the reason ok see i'm a pretty outgoing person and nice to alot of people. so before me and myboyfriend started going out i was best friends with my ex friend jackie and her family was best friends with his family so i met his parents before we started to go out and they really did like me but then we started going out and my friend got jelouse and we stoped being friends so then she made up lies saying i diched her and stuff when i never did . so her mom talk to his mom and now she hates me but really she doesn't know me that well and now i'm realy quite around his parents because i'm scared that if i say on thing wronge she'll hate me even more and now because he moved and (is't summer!) i only see him once a week or everyother week :[ what should i do? help

try being really nice to his mom, give her a gift. and when you see her maybe give her a hug or compliment her. she'll luv ya fr that!

Dear barf102206,
Why would your boyfriend tell you all the stuff his mom said about you? This is not a thing he should be doing. Why would he want to hurt your feeling? She is nice to your face so you be nice to her face. We are all allowed to feel they way we choose about people but we know when to keep things to ourselves. If you are that uncomfortable in his home then don't go to his home. You are not going to change his mother's mind about you after all she has heard. One day she may hear the truth but for the time being it's best to be left alone.
Sue..good luck