I hate my step dad what should i do

I cant do any with out getting yelled at .
he hates me.
he acts like his kid is a angle.
one time he grab me by my neck and made me hit the wall.
so yeah its getting really bad.
my mom thinks it all one big joke.
errr I just hat him

well if it comes to abuse then you should report it.

and talk to him about it when he's calm.

its worth an effort.

are you crazy? talk to an obviously emotionaly disturbed person about them BEING emotionally disturbed is crazy! I would tell a school councelor, they will know what to do.

this happens all the time. I've seen it happen with me, my step sister and my dad and step mum. its common. the dad sticks up for his and usually the mum sticks up for hers but it seems your mum isnt taking this seriously.

Throwing you against the wall is child abuse and at the end of the day if you mum cant see that then she's blind. He's abusing you and could face a jail sentaance for that.

You need to tell her that he seriously needs to change or you're getting social services involved as there is abuse going on in your home. good luck

I know how you feel I got a step dad who just puts me down everyday, if I was you I'd talk to someone you trust about it and also maybe a professional. but also you should try maybe sitting your mom and step-dad at the table together and express your feelings to both of how he's making you feel and you can't take much more of his abuse.

thats all I can really say hope things get better for you in the future.

talk to your mom about it

I cant talk to my mom she has like a whole new family and I dont think I am in it any more

im guessing your feeling rejected. Your a foreigner in the family- if you show your polite and communicate with them abit they'll more likely to accept you.

But still you step dad is abusing you. you just cant compromise with some people and if thats the case then you really need to seek outside help. help further than this. please dont let this continue I geniunly feel for you. good luck

well he not really abusing me .
it only happened once .

Just deal with it. I hate my step-dad too. Get a good education, focus on school, and when you turn 18 move out. It's life, just learn to deal with it.

your mom actually thinks that's funny or a joke thats sad she should dump him I am so sorry all that happened to me that abuse at the highest level

to. nikki_loves
just deal with it its like I am living in hell.
I hate it here but just deal with it.
okay?
thats sounds really dumb to me

I would suggest get a way to move out, a friend a family member and next time he does that immediately go to the police while those marks are still around your neck.

no

I hate my moms boyfriend to! I know where your coming from its like my moms never on my side, (kinda like she wants him around more than she wants me around and im her daughter) and its like people say...'just move out' and its like why should I have to move out? and why should I even have to go through this... I dont know if you could talk your mom about it or anything..because I cant she just listens to his side. I gotten advice saying I should back off but that doesn't really work either ..so I don't know but if ya ever need someone to talk to just funmail me because im going through the same thing!

call the cops on him. it's a crime to abuse someone under the age of 18.

well I dont know what you should to my step dad took my phone away and he is sayin I used the internet and he swears at my mom a lot and he blames everything on me like its my fight it really hurts me how he says its my fault I don't know what do I just want to die everytime my step brother gets hurt he has to yell at me

look, im like you too my step dad is so reatated and he gets mad for one of the dumbised things in the world its better to have your real father back or just your mom

I JUST WANT MY FAMILY BACK!!!
MY IFE IS LKE BULL SHIT I uesed to live in maryland and he made us move to colorado springs hes in the army thats the worst part and he still hits me