I feel like I have no friends, what do I do?

I feel like I have no friends. I just started off in a new high school only knowing a few people that I had met once before. I sit with people at lunch and stuff and I have a few friends that im comfortable around but im not really in a group. my school is really big so you dont know everyone and my friends dont know each other. I have no friends to hang out with on the weekend and its really depressing. also what am I supposed to do on halloween and things like that when I have to go trick or treating with someone? I would feel awkward because if I go with one of my friends then I wouldnt know her friends and that would happen with every one that I would even have a chance of goign with. help what do I do?

Answer #1

Since your friends who don’t know each other and they have different social circles. You’ll just have to choose one group. Be sure that you feel comfortable with them and that you all have as many common interests as possible. The trick is to get yourself closer to them. If you ever manage to meet a certain group of friends be talkative, nice and if possible funny. Just make sure you don’t hide behind the person you already know. Exchange phone numbers and chat or write something funny to one of those people by phone. Once you know at least 2 friends from the “group” others will see you as their friend too. Just make sure you don’t ignore anyone while making a new friendship. Don’t look at this as something calculated. That’s how people are. We all have a need to belong somewhere and trust someone. In groups they can be cruel and isolated from “outsiders”. But each individual is a beautiful person who could always be your friend. Just look for the good in people. =)

Answer #2

well if you want to know more people then go trick or treating with your friend so you can get to know her friends better. then you can sit with them at lunch and not feel akward. and you dont have to be in any specific group. just get to know everyone and see witch one you think are more like you and get to know them the best hope this helps :P

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