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What if i feel ugly and fat?

Asked by sunshine619 about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

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a lot of people say im perfect and have a beautiful body.. but I dont think so.

I feel like im gaining to much weight. I've been on diets and I exercise everyday .. but it just doesnt seem like its working. and I think this is the problem with me...

getting boyfriends. I dont think im pretty enough and people think im getting TOO skinny and that im freaking out with this whole diet thing b/c im not even fat. people think im going anorexic... my parents even think so.

but I just feel so ugly and fat. what do I do?

Answered by qtpi7275 on Nov 29, 2007, 06:31PM
12 answers

well you say I'm not even fat then why are you dieting to the point you look annorexic ? I'm sure you look fine, dont get too skinny guys dont like that, guys like thicker girls and they like confidence. so instead of feeling bad aboutyourself you should feel good and confident because that is YOU.

Answered by kozueworldz on Nov 30, 2007, 02:27AM
507 answers

Since people say you are fine or even better,then listen to them.Dont think too much.Have confident with how you look.Good luck! ^^

Answered by momof4 on Nov 30, 2007, 10:24AM
3 answers

Did someone tell you you are ugly or fat? Or is this just you who thinks this? If it is you then you need to talk to someone. This could be something serious. Every person on this planet is different and that's what makes us all special. Don't worry about boyfriends right now. When you don't the right one will come into your life. At your age they are only thinking about one thing anyway, believe me I know. If you are a good person and do good things that makes you beautiful inside and out. If you still feel ugly or fat go to a grown up you trust, your mom, an aunt, a friend of the family and talk to them. They may have experienced the same thing at your age and can help you a great deal. Good Luck and remember don't let anyone tell you you are ugly or fat.

Answered by not_emo_justalittlequiet14 on Nov 30, 2007, 01:04PM
10 answers

oh man I feel the exact same way but at least you fam cares mine are the ones actually TELLING me lol

Answered by greenacidjunkfood on Dec 06, 2007, 05:23AM
10 answers

well I used to think the same thing and then I really got fat (not ugly just fat)I mean I gained 40 pounds in a year. And it really makes you wish you would have appreciated your body when it was in shape and healthy. I'm working on dieting and exercising to lose the weight its not hopeless. Anyways being fat doesn't make you ugly...Good luck