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I cant stand my boyfriend's kid

Asked by prettysoutherngal 4 months ago, 11 answers.

I hate kids and my boyfriend is trying to get as much custody of his as possible. id rather if he just saw her every once in a while. he wants me to be a part of her life and I cant stand her!

Answered by pinkpearl on Jul 03, 2009, 07:58PM
2030 answers

Your boyfriend's daughter is the most important thing in his life. If it weren't, something would be terribly wrong with him. He needs a different type of girlfriend - set him free... and then find a guy with no kids.

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Answered by ya3ni on Jul 07, 2009, 07:43PM
14 answers

it sounds like you are selfish in this matter, or u'r really angry about her right now! you will just come between them. leave them to bond and don't be a witch in this. do the right thing and let him go. I mean, u'r just his girlfriend, not his fioncé or wife. sorry girl but you need to be the bigger person in this and move on alone.

Answered by char3003 on Jul 27, 2009, 01:38PM

I understand where you are coming from. Blended families are tough, most of the time everyone does NOT love and adore everyone else.

Answered by ty on Jul 03, 2009, 07:26PM
10116 answers

Find a new boyfriend?

Answered by funadvice on Jul 03, 2009, 07:38PM
53985 answers

if you love your boyfriend, you have to learn to love his daughter

Answered by funadvice on Jul 03, 2009, 07:38PM
53985 answers

well tahts hard do you love the boy?did you have sex with him yet?reply

Answered by goat11 on Jul 03, 2009, 07:43PM
186 answers

you need to be supportive, if you want to stay with him that is, if you make him choose between you two, I'm sorry, but he would choose his daughter

Answered by morgandiscover598 on Jul 03, 2009, 08:34PM
164 answers

Sorry, but you sound like a horrible person, his daughter is his everything, and that what HE wants. Stop thinking about only yourself.

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Answered by editor on Jul 06, 2009, 11:35AM
8965 answers

Wow. Sounds like he could do better.

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Answered by captainassassin on Jul 06, 2009, 03:35PM
6184 answers

...end the relationship...

You're obviously a little too self-centered for that kind of situation.

Answered by maebee on Jul 06, 2009, 08:26PM
1889 answers

I agree with everyone else. His child comes before you. If you do not like children then you should not be dating someone who has a child. I say go find a man who can give you the attention you think you deserve.

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