I broke a rule of the lds faith, need advice please!

Since some of you know I'm Mormon, I broke a rule of the church called the Law of Chastity.
Well, since I'm old enough to date, I had a man over I met off the phone since he lives in Saint Louis Michigan which is about 100 miles from me. Well, I thought...

him and I were going to continue our conversation when he was with me but, I had to show him music I listen too. Right away, he starts French kissing me, and wanting to lick my neck. I was physically turned on by him since he's one of those men who are really muscular, and 6 FT tall. Him and I started dancing to one of the songs I downloaded on my computer and that's when all the french kissing started.
Anyway, I broke a rule of the LDS church which wasn't supposed to be kissing on the lips, or doing physical touching. Luckily, he didn't do any penitration for I'm glad for that still, the kissing and licking is a sin to the Lord. I'm so afraid to talk to my LDS leader tomorrow for I know he's going to be really upset with me because of me lusting.
I told my closest friend and, well, she told me how men are and I know this was all my fault for not keeping up on my scriptures. Church leaders do encourage us to read our scriptures daily so the Lord can be with us. I know the rules of the church and such since I joined but, I slipped and let them go. Please help! I'm so afraid to face my LDS Leader tomorrow. How should I approach him? Advice needed.

I'm of an entirely different faith, so what I say may be wrong, but I can't help but think that so long as you understand your faults and are doing what you must to correct the situation, you should receive forgiveness. Your LDS leader may be just the person to help guide you to rectify the situation.

You haven't done anything wrong, you should not feel shamed. It's basic human nature to want to kiss, there's a reason that it feels good.

Hi Leslie... I am not LDS, but, I am sure that the rules are there for your protection, and it sounds very dangerous, what you did. You mention that this Man ... (sounds like he is much older and more experienced than you ) is someone you met on the phone... ??? and it sounds like you didnt know him very well at all, nor did you know anything about him, am I right so far???

Also, he came 100 miles.. to meet you... which is a long way... and it sounds like this was your first meeting??? If so, this is mighty heavy stuff... for someone you know nothing about and esp. for a first meeting.

I would be horrified.. if you were my daughter... or grandaugher... I would be very fearful for your safety...extremly glad you made it thru this experience, with your dignity intact... seemingly...anyway.

The news has the reports of missing teens... all the time, almost everyday, in fact, and if this is the way this really happened... you are blessed indeed... that you suffered no more than you did.

I sincerely hope that you do confide in your mentors in the church, so that you can do a lot of things very differently. sounds like you are pushing the envelope, because you are sheltered... however, you have no earthly idea how blessed you are that someone is trying to protect you from doing stuff that you wish later you had not done.

Please, from a mothers heart, don't rush it... there will be plenty of time.. to grow up... when you are ready.

God be with you... and please.. listen to your leaders...

silverwings: Perhaps you should check someone's age before offering advice. leslie23's profile indicates she was born in 1985, which makes her 23 - an adult in her own right, and not in need of your condescending concern. I'm certain she's able to handle herself, and not trying to push the envelope.

leslie23: My advice would be to stop worrying about nonsensical rules that protect no-one and serve no purpose other than to prevent you from doing something that's harmless and enjoyable. But I suspect you won't take my advice.

Yes, profiles do help in whom we visit for advice. Any age female who is a virgin is still one of God's children ( all of us are...there are no God's adults) who wants to live a pure life. No still means no, and if one cannot endure that, there is no respect.

We all slip up in life every day, none of us are perfect. How boring would that be? Just ask forgiveness and know God removes all guilt. He has given us a memory to help us in similar situations that may repeat. Repenting means going the other way and not turning back to do the same thing again.

I was once told that we deserve a certain level of pleasure. Dilute yourself with how many lovers and when marriage comes along, how can someone totally give themselves to their mate?

people make mistakes its part of our nature because man has a sinul nature
you should talk to God and ask him to forgive you
and your leader should understand...you didnt mean to

Hebrews 11:1

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