How to get my girlfriend in the mood for me to finger her

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a month now and I havnt fingered her or licked her out yet, she says she don't want me 2 do it because last time someone did it it hurt her, anyone got any hints or tips in how to get her in the mood for it or...

the mood for her to let me lick her out

if it was her first time getting fingered then explain to here that it was suppoest to hurt the first time it does for every girl. But if I wasnt her first time then she is probley really scared. make her feel relaxed, and pretty not hot pretty...be romantic it works every time!

something that might get her in the mood is feeling her up, it would make her feel good and it could get her in the mood.

but don't be an @$$ and break up with her just cause she won't let you lick her out or finger her.

**she says she don't want me 2 do it**- Well there you go- she DOES NOT WANT YOU TO DO IT. Respect that and wait for her to be ready.

Girls have feelings are not supposed to be used for a mans pleasure. You have only been going out for a month anyway. Sexual activities should not be rushed or forced upon anyone. Leave her alone and do it only when she is ready.

Sorry, but just because shes your girlfriend, doesnt mean she has to let you be your little sex toy!

Here is what you said in your LAST question**I need some tips on how to give my Girlfriend maximum pleasure, I've kinda fingered her while licking her out.** Lying isnt going to get you anywhere.

She says she doesnt want you to do it, so GROW UP, leave her alone, and stop begging! Relationships arent all about being sexual! Learn how to treat a girl with respect, or your going to end up being one lonely, horny little boy!

Wait a couple of months. She's obviously scared so stop trying to rush things. Build a strong relationship before you do anything sexual. If she says she doesnt want to - then she doesn't. No matter what, you can't force people into sexual acts. That's rape.

god damn!!! angelfire made a good point plus she chewed your butt out in the process!!! lol!!! w8 4 her 2 ask you dude. if you continue to bug the crap out of her she will tell you 2 go screw yourself and drop-kick your butt through the goal post of life. I've learned that no matter what the female will always have it her way. good luck!

Seriously?? I mean, shes not ready dude. dont rush sh1t like this. if she dont wanna, SHE DONT WANNA! wow you r dumb. your answer is in your question.