How to be the best tease?

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year in sept. I broke up with my ex in may of 05. just a couple of months ago, my ex and I started talking again through txting. it was all innocent and nothing happened and nothing stupid was said. I like talking to...

him because he's honestly a fun guy to be around (things didnt work out because he wasn't that great of a boyfriend) anyways, so now we txt every once in awhile and my boyfriend knows about it. one time my ex was drunk and he told me he still wanted me... even after a whole year of us not being boyfriend/girlfriend! so yeah my problem is that I loved hearing that he wanted me. its not that I want him back, its just that I want him to keep wanting me. he had apologized for that one night and now when we txt, I dont flirt but he sorta does (like he tells me the stupidest stuff that I really dont care about) anyways, how can I make him try getting with me and to want me??? like, die-hard want me? I know that sounds weird but I just want him to chase me a little bit. should I wear slutty clothes around me? (because I know he loves my boobs) or how can I tease him or seem hard to get? I don't know BUT PLEASE HELP!!!

Ok, you sound alittle messed up! Grow up, and forget the childish antics! You have a bf. Forget the past! If you need the attention so bad, get it from your bf, not your ex!!!

Agreed Angelfire2708

tease your boyfriend not your ex. how would you feel if your boyfriend was craving attention from other girls and doing anything he could to get it. i dont think you'd like it so consider what your doing. its so unfair

alright... i don't judge... none of you should .. this is advice not judgement day.

Maybe you should keep these boyfriends more CASUAL cuz that what it souunds like you're doing.

dont go for it if he wanted you he would not have apologized people say dumb things when they are drunk

Why not lay it on thick and tease him out of his mind? He will enjoy it and you will get the biggest kick out seeing this good friend/crappy boyfriend get all hot and drooling over you! You know you want to tease him and make him pop a semi just seeing all your ample cleavage in your 'look but don't touch' approach. A bit of tease and denial will keep him longing for you ('die-hard' longing) and you will delight in watching him salivate with his eyes over you.
View his crotch once in a while to see his development press out against his jeans as you wear those intentionally slutty clothes for him. You already know you are going to get the biggest thrill out of it, who are you kidding?

seriously,dont get all tangled up with all that,you have a boyfriend and need to be happy withhim,if you go back to wanting to tease your ex it will breed dicontent and ruin the relationship you have.