How should i break up with him and get my stuff back?

I've been going out with a boy for nearly 4 months now, but I'm getting pretty bored already and the 'spark' has gone. All we do is argue but sometimes we can be OK. I don't want to be with him anymore, I'd rather be single and have more time to myself....

Our relationship is the most serious one I've ever been in so don;t want to do it by text or something, but I don't know how he will take it if I do it by face! He has also got a lot of my stuff so I don't know how I'm going to get it back?

Dear florida06,
This can happen when we rush into relationships without truly knowing the person. Sounds like he has no idea that you are not happy. You owe it to him and anyone you are in a committed relationship with to talk with that person face to face....unless you fear abuse. Arrange for a quiet evening at home or if are afraid at a place where you have trusted friends. Talk and be honest about how you feel, explain that you need some time for yourself. Don't forget you are responsible to keep the relationship interesting and fun...it isn't only a males responsibility. Us females tend to get bored faster than males do (not all) so we need to be creative. If you really want to let go then explain that to him, if you just want to do more interesting things up and have some more fun then I suggest you do it. After all we are the more creative sex (not all)..(sorry guys lol)
Sue...good luck

well.. my advice would be to just tell him you want to be just friends and move on with your life all my friends tell me that there is other fish in the sea