how do you tell your boyfriend somethin that kills you to think bout

I love my boyfriend.. we have been datin for about a year now he wants to finger me but I wont let him..he doesnt understand why I wouldnt want him too.. I want to tell him about last summer..my brothers friend hit me in my hip and fingerd me and told me if I told anyone I would feel more pain than I did at that moment.. I just dont think it would remind me to much of that night…I don’t know how to tell him… any advice?

Answer #1

If you can trust your boyfriend with your life and you know he won’t speak about it to anyone else unless you want him to. And if your boyfriend is crazy about you and will try to kill the person tell him that it isn’t worth it and it will hurt you if he tries to retaliate. And if he really is crazy about yo he will respect you no matter what and leave it alone.

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