How do you get your parents to understand where you are coming from

Well, okay. So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. We're very much in love and well, to tell the truth we've had sex twice now but I kinda feel bad just a little bit because I didnt talk with my mom about it, and he hasnt talked to...

his parents about us doing this either. Its a big step into a relationship I know. But both him and I feel what we did is okay. We very much enjoyed it but yet I feel like I shouldnt have because my mom just wouldnt get where Im coming from, that I do love him, I do care for him and that I didnt just do it out of spite or because of hormonal rage or anything crazy like that. Hahh. But she's always told me, Wait to do that stuff until you're married. But, I just couldnt, I just thought it felt right to do it when I did. So my question is, how do I get her to understand where I am coming from? I mean,come on.. I do have needs in life. And my dad on the other hand, he doesnt care as long as Im safe about things like that.

Your parents should support you no matter what. I completely agree with no-sex before marriage and my Dad has told me I need to wait, as well, but just sit your mom down and be honest. You don't necessarily need to tell your parents - if you choose to that's your choice and if not and they ask all I can say is just be honest.

Hope I helped,
JL :]